Tinder dates

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Kristen19, Oct 2, 2015.

  1. Kristen19

    Kristen19 New Member

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    Went out with a guy from tinder yesterday. From chatting online he seemed to only want to hook up but in person seemed to want to date or fall in love or something. We only kissed. What am I getting into?
     
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  2. theshaw81

    theshaw81 Well-Known Member

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    Black guy?
     
  3. slimstiffy

    slimstiffy Member

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    Black guy?
    Jist asking coz were pn b2w
    Maybe he really liked you..
     
  4. blueloader6119

    blueloader6119 New Member

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  5. Hetroluver

    Hetroluver New Member

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    I would have fucked you hard and long stroked you...then setup the second date...IJS #Drinks #Love #Later
     
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  6. South African BBC

    South African BBC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Haha love at first sight he was smitten besotted blown away by your beauty. But people should be direct if they want friends with benefits or love lol. Don't give mixed signals lol
     
  7. Amitabh

    Amitabh Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    i thought everyone doibg time wasting on tinder only
     
  8. hotLena

    hotLena Well-Known Member

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    You are getting into a relationship ;)
    The good thing about tinder is there are sooo many guys and in my experience most of the men are cool with just hooking up.
     
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  9. Amitabh

    Amitabh Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    here no one is replying in germany from.last 4 days
     
  10. hotLena

    hotLena Well-Known Member

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    I hope you don't only have a dickpic on tinder.
    Give it some time. I guess it is a bit more difficult for guys
     
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  11. Amitabh

    Amitabh Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    i hv normal pic there no dick pic
     
  12. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Sometimes guys like giving the impression of a "commitment" in order to obtain an exclusive (ownership) over you ... in other words, he liked what he saw and decided he wanted you screwing only him, so he plays the "I'm in love with you, let's get involved" BS.
    Just be careful what you say to him, as he's going to probably hear what he wants to hear anyways, but you don't want to give him the false impression of a return commitment. You might could test it by not being available every time he calls ... telling him you were busy or something. If he persist, it might be a hint to back off. If he needs a companion, tell him to get a dog. :)
     
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