Thinking of introducing wife to BBC

[XJz]

So, for almost a year, I've been watching BBC porn with my wife. She gets particularly wet when we put on a video of two BBC running a train on a wife while I fuck her from behind and have her suck my thumb while telling her to "suck that black cock." We've never talked about making this roleplay a reality and I'm not sure I'm ready for that. What do you all think I should do?

If we're turned on by the fantasy, does it mean the reality of having her suck a black cock would be fun? Or, is it possible, like fucking your student or something, that the consequence-free fantasy is much better than the real thing?

 

[cuckyboi4BBC]

In this case, reality is BETTER than the fantasy...introduce your wife to BBC...

 

[MacNfries]

If we're turned on by the fantasy, does it mean the reality of having her suck a black cock would be fun? Or, is it possible, like fucking your student or something, that the consequence-free fantasy is much better than the real thing?

XJ, yours is the first post I've read in a while where all the right indicators are flashing to move forward. Your wife and you share good fantasy play, she's shown interest in b2w, you both show the desire to experience more but wish to protect your marriage. Obviously, swinging doesn't come without risks, one of which is how it will affect your relationship, with each other, down the road. My assumption, with married couples, is always that the 2 of you care most about your marriage, so move forward cautiously, and in stages, rather than diving in and seeing what happens.

You're new here (welcome by the way), and haven't provided any background info of your sexual experiences as a couple thus far, or filled out your profile. I think this is important to know before any logical recommendation can be suggested, as everyone is unique in a way. However, there are many threads in the archives where couples (male spouses primarily) have asked this same question. So you could always read those to start.

This kind of activity tends to drastically elevate emotional levels; some people respond positively to them, and others negatively, and you often don't know which way you'll react until it happens. Personally, I don't think I'd want to chance how I might react watching someone else screw my wife IF I would have problems watching a guy rub her breasts or kiss her, because once she screws another guy, you become a cuckold, and its not retractable. So I suggest you two move forward in small steps of experiences , and there are plenty of suggestions for that.

Look forward to learning more about the 2 of you in future posts ... Mac

 

[XJz]

I've been thinking of starting by taking her to a club and letting her grind her ass on some black guys. Do you think it's reasonable to set mouth-only rules or once she starts sucking them, she's going to let them fuck her as soon as they ask?

 

[nothinguc]

This is her choice and partially yours to some degree. If you are both ready - as it seems to be - it may be time to try. I never regretted being a cuck and was one for many years.

 

[MacNfries]

... Do you think it's reasonable to set mouth-only rules or once she starts sucking them, she's going to let them fuck her as soon as they ask?

It's most definitely reasonable to initially set parameters to this activity, and I don't think she'll have a problem with that. As each of you become more comfortable, you can always change/broaden the rules. But, its important that the two of you initially have rules that make you both feel comfortable. As I mentioned earlier, take small steps of accomplishments at a time. Let her meet and dance with guys, maybe get felt up, but only go as far as what you agreed. I wouldn't encourage her to get banged by a strange guy on a first meeting. Also, you might think about whether you use condoms or not ... particularly with men you don't know. Everyone hates 'em, but its the smart thing to do.
You're doing good ... the two of you are a "team" ... think of it as win-win and let no one encourage otherwise.

 

[smmrbrz40]

Check to find yhoo groups in your area and become a member check out some hotel parties, its not required to participate but as a couple you can view this and decide if you want to move foreward with it, we did it and it works for us you can play as much or as little as you both want

 

[BunnyWatching]

Without a doubt, it was one of the most exciting sexual experiences I had ever had. After we had met him at the club, I drove myself and my wife to the hotel and was able to slide my hands into her panties to feel how wet she was for him. It was an amazing experience for the both of us. I encourage you and your wife to move ahead!