might be open to this lifestyle down the road? Obviously, you wouldn't want to mention it too soon into a relationship. Unfortunately, I don't live in a big metro area. Has anyone ever been to one of these clubs? Is it uncommon to see white couples there? It would be fun to just people watch at a place like this. I'm sure you'd get to see the odd time where a black guy is grinding and dancing with a white chick as her partner watches from the sidelines.