Surprised at how different men are in bed, even the same man at different times. Did not realize there was extraordinary talent out there. And the big one was that what I thought were orgasms before were just arousal. Not that climaxing is the be all and end all to great sex, but rolling over deletions from them is addicting. Am so glad I experienced them in my life. Tragic that many never will.
Was also very surprised how I took to interracial sex. Had never dawned on me until my husband pestered me about it. Figured I would give it a go to shut him up. My first lover commented that I was built for BBC (which others have independently also said one way or another), and he was dead on right. With the right black man, it seems like a natural fit in every way, the way I am held, kissed, and especially .....