Nice thread Janie...clearly people are moving on about IR relationships..it wasn't too long ago we were all limited by the boundaries ****** upon us..but now we all understand, it's not about skin color of the person in your life, but his or her character..yes the site is fun and some of the comments are just hyperbole..but the real issue is that we are maturing in a major way..yes IR porn started the process, College age students both black and white have understood what some of us in the 'old school' didn't..it's about the person, and not their heritage..so let's encourage the men and women who are open to new people in their lives to be honest, accept it and ignore any comments from others..OSP25