The Trouble with Black Bulls

Dsoul

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A lot of hubbies want nothing more than having sexual gratification from watching their wives enjoy some hardcore sex with a black man. It’s only fair that they be given this, however it’s weird to state that this is something a lot of black men out there simply don’t get, don’t understand, or just don’t want to be bothered about it, and that’s why I’m writing this post to tell them otherwise.
If you visit a lot of erotic interracial forums, you’d see the same things that I often do: there’s plenty of black men in there, all waving their dicks like the place is some black dick gay parade, all of them itching for any white woman that dares to announce herself in there. I’ve got nothing wrong with that, but I often get to wonder: do this brothers think every white pussy is free??!!!? A lot of them have got nothing interesting to say besides: ‘want some black dick?’ Also, why do they always got to show their dicks first? How would I even know that’s actually theirs, or if maybe they lifted it off some black gay porn site?
A cuckolding relationship consists of three individuals: a cuck hubby, a hot wife, and the black bull/Black Master. To keep the synergy going, it involves all three getting along together. If one decides he/she isn’t getting the better end of the stick, then there’s going to be a lot of disappointment going on, and who knows where that could lead.
A lot of black bulls much rather prefer concentrating on the wife, and leaving the cuck hubby to do whatever, or even vanish for the picture, and that’s not cool. It’s never a good thing ignoring a hubby from the picture, or else, that relationship isn’t going to last. A lot of bulls might think that this is all about sex – fucking the wife and cumming inside her and then head back home and wait for the next white pussy to stray across their path – but I beg to differ. This is a relationship, as I’ve already said. Before starting, it’s good that every person in the circle get to lay their cards on the table and talk about what they desire to see happen in the relationship.
http://mastershango.com/2012/12/26/one-cuck-hubby-one-hot-wife-one-black-master/
Any of you ever wonder why some bulls prefer ignoring a hubby's presence and only wanting the wife for themselves?
 
Dsoul, good thread; hopefully many will read and comment to it. It certainly exposes the ISSUE and possibly will help many (if taken seriously) to find success in their goal of developing a black & white relationship. The topic here, if some haven't picked up on it, is really about "attitude" ... and it can be a game winner or a game loser.

Sometimes its easy for individuals to get caught up in a fantasy part (master-bull-slave-wimp-slut, cuck, etc), but there is a reality side to all this, and if these black&white arrangements are really going to happen, each person needs to know his/her limitations as well as his/her own role. The black man, specifically, has a real opportunity to score himself some white pussy, and if he does a good job, to score that white pussy on a fairly regular basis. BUT, he's first got to realize that he is just being used as a tool, just as he thinks he is using the white woman or the white couple. He's there for her convenience, and it can quickly end if he crops an attitude that he, for some reason, holds some imaginary power/control over the white woman/couple.

The white female ... she's the common denominator, so she must be in the equation regardless of the others involved. If she wants to play Dom/Sub, or Master/Slave, or allow the black man to take control, or humiliate her husband, or just have a satisfying "good fuck" with a black man ... SHE is the one to call those shots. I think probably many black guys get this, but there are the extreme few who take this opportunity to assume its "payback time for black men", or its "reparations time", or whatever ... that crap should be left to the forums, OR in reality, it gets you kicked out the door rather quickly.

This is hopefully a good Reminder Thread as to the reality of all this ... :)
 
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A cuckolding relationship consists of three individuals: a cuck hubby, a hot wife, and the black bull/Black Master. To keep the synergy going, it involves all three getting along together. If one decides he/she isn’t getting the better end of the stick, then there’s going to be a lot of disappointment going on, and who knows where that could lead.
A lot of black bulls much rather prefer concentrating on the wife, and leaving the cuck hubby to do whatever, or even vanish for the picture, and that’s not cool. It’s never a good thing ignoring a hubby from the picture, or else, that relationship isn’t going to last. ....

Good points and enjoyed the video as well.
 
What about those of us who aren't here for a cuckold relationship - who are more or less single? (I have an FWB GF, but it's an open relationship - let's just say she a real whore and fucks guys a LOT - and doesn't even want to hear anything about what I might do with men on my own time)
 
What about those of us who aren't here for a cuckold relationship - who are more or less single? (I have an FWB GF, but it's an open relationship - let's just say she a real whore and fucks guys a LOT - and doesn't even want to hear anything about what I might do with men on my own time)

Then posting in the "cuckold forum" would appear to be a foolish waste of time.
If all you are interested in is finding a black man to have sex with, you would be more likely to find one on a gay site that caters to interracial gay/bi encounters instead of trying to find a black man that is here looking to fuck married white pussy via a cuckolding relationship.
 
Then posting in the "cuckold forum" would appear to be a foolish waste of time.
If all you are interested in is finding a black man to have sex with, you would be more likely to find one on a gay site that caters to interracial gay/bi encounters instead of trying to find a black man that is here looking to fuck married white pussy via a cuckolding relationship.
Oops, sorry, I don't look at posts by forum - I mostly look at "What's New?" and forget to pay attention to what forum the posts listed are from - I will try to remember to avoid that mistake in the future :oops:

Though it looks like you jumped to the assumption that I'm one of the typical cuckold guys using a girl's picture for my avatar.....


:blackheart: Lanie
All girl most of the time, girl with BBC some of the time ;)
 
You are so right Dsoul. The Bulls who ignored me and wanted me out of the picture never got a return invite. The wife/cuckoldress enjoys them talking down to me and degrading me. It is a relationship between the three of us. The Bulls who had as much of her as they wanted included all of us in everything. As it should be. Thank you for this post!
 
What about those of us who aren't here for a cuckold relationship - who are more or less single?

Lanie, actually you make an interesting point. Cuckolding (by its original definition) involves a married man who's wife is having sex with other men (infidelity) ... thus the married man was the only one that could be labeled a cuckold. I underline the key words to the definition & statement. However, the current use of the word cuckold is encompassing both sexes in a marriage (thus married women are now being labeled cuckolds when their husbands cheat & commit infidelity), and it is used with both sexes of unmarried couples in committed relationships.

So neither you (Lanie) nor your GF can cuckold each other because neither of you are in a monogomous relationship with each other ... rather, the 2 of you are in a bi-sexual, swinging relationship. Yet still, as the female of ANY straight (M&F) relationship you have, you initially (not ultimately) determine the course of that relationship. The black men you bed, do so at your convenience and under your terms until such time as you become an addicted, black cock bitch to them ... there's not a lot of difference between BBC addiction and any other addictions. Once addiction occurs, you lose control of your ability to control the relationship & its course, and are willing to accept the terms the blackman gives to you. He'll control you. But, until that addiction occurs (if it occurs), you determine the course of the relationship with him. Becoming black cock addicted can be a very dangerous direction for white females. Your moral values and well-being will no longer matter; you'll reach some new lows in your own value system.
 
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Though it looks like you jumped to the assumption that I'm one of the typical cuckold guys using a girl's picture for my avatar.....

That and your statement: "(I have an FWB GF, but it's an open relationship - let's just say she a real whore and fucks guys a LOT - and doesn't even want to hear anything about what I might do with men on my own time)", did steer me toward the assumption that you were another bi/gay white guy looking for black dick.

As a white bi/lesbian female, you shouldn't have much difficulty finding some black dick on this site, but, unless you are hoping to find a black man to be the "bull" in the relationship you have with your girlfriend, the cuckold section doesn't do you much good.
However, if you could get your girlfriend to hook up with a hot black guy, I'm sure you would make a great cuckquean for them! ;):D
 
Lanie, actually you make an interesting point. Cuckolding (by its original definition) involves a married man who's wife is having sex with other men (infidelity) ... thus the married man was the only one that could be labeled a cuckold. I underline the key words to the definition & statement. However, the current use of the word cuckold is encompassing both sexes in a marriage (thus married women are now being labeled cuckolds when their husbands cheat & commit infidelity), and it is used with both sexes of unmarried couples in committed relationships.

So neither you (Lanie) nor your GF can cuckold each other because neither of you are in a monogomous relationship with each other ... rather, the 2 of you are in a bi-sexual, swinging relationship. Yet still, as the female of ANY straight (M&F) relationship you have, you initially (not ultimately) determine the course of that relationship. The black men you bed, do so at your convenience and under your terms until such time as you become an addicted, black cock bitch to them ... there's not a lot of difference between BBC addiction and any other addictions. Once addiction occurs, you lose control of your ability to control the relationship & its course, and are willing to accept the terms the blackman gives to you. He'll control you. But, until that addiction occurs (if it occurs), you determine the course of the relationship with him. Becoming black cock addicted can be a very dangerous direction for white females. Your moral values and well-being will no longer matter; you'll reach some new lows in your own value system.
To begin with, I guess I kind of blundered into the wrong forum with my original comment, but here I am.....

The weird thing I have found, is a couple of guys contacting me wanting to "cuckold" - which I think really means wanting to watch (and find strange, if not creepy), I don't think the definition stretches >that< far.....

The rest sound kinda philosophical...not sure I get the "addiction" thing. Domination, maybe...I don't have much experience with that, not sure how it might play out.....


:blackheart: Lanie
 
You are so right Dsoul. The Bulls who ignored me and wanted me out of the picture never got a return invite. The wife/cuckoldress enjoys them talking down to me and degrading me. It is a relationship between the three of us. The Bulls who had as much of her as they wanted included all of us in everything. As it should be. Thank you for this post!

A lot of folks in here are going to start thinking I'm a psychologist in here, and that you all are my test subjects LOL.

But yes, it's a fact that's always being at the back of my head, and a lot of couples have often shared their distress with in the past as to why it is a lot of black men they've met tend to not want the hubby to be there to watch...or have some fun in what they're doing.

Another thing is I reckon it works out best between the couple and the bull when the bull isn't married or attached to some other female...unless he and his spouse are into swinging, or that he'd like to share her with the couple. Do you agree with this, too?
 
... I guess I kind of blundered into the wrong forum with my original comment, but here I am.....

Blundering can be interesting sometimes, if not actually FUN.

The weird thing I have found, is a couple of guys contacting me wanting to "cuckold" - which I think really means wanting to watch (and find strange, if not creepy), I don't think the definition stretches >that< far..... :blackheart: Lanie

Guys sometimes fail to read for comprehension. I imagine these are white guys wanting to hook up with a white female that will cuckold them ... in other words, they want to commit to a relationship with YOU, and allow you to see other men so you can cuckold them. Obviously they aren't understanding (or care) that your interest HERE is in black men, not white men that want to be cuckolds. I'm not sure if these guys are simply Bi, themselves, or simply don't understand cuckolding. I know I get contacted almost daily by black males who want to hook up with my wife, when my profile clearly states why I'm here, and its not to find black cock for my wife. Heck, if she wants black cock, she won't have the least bit problem hooking up, I'm sure. She's been flirted with by several black guys in the past. But, lots of posters don't take the time to read profiles to save themselves the frustration. :confused:
 
Guys sometimes fail to read for comprehension. I imagine these are white guys wanting to hook up with a white female that will cuckold them ... in other words, they want to commit to a relationship with YOU, and allow you to see other men so you can cuckold them. Obviously they aren't understanding (or care) that your interest HERE is in black men, not white men that want to be cuckolds. I'm not sure if these guys are simply Bi, themselves, or simply don't understand cuckolding. I know I get contacted almost daily by black males who want to hook up with my wife, when my profile clearly states why I'm here, and its not to find black cock for my wife. Heck, if she wants black cock, she won't have the least bit problem hooking up, I'm sure. She's been flirted with by several black guys in the past. But, lots of posters don't take the time to read profiles to save themselves the frustration. :confused:
No, I have had guys contact me who I'm pretty sure just wanted to arrange to show up and be there when I was being taken by a Bull - they were trying to call it "cuckolding", though I'd just call that watching, or voyeurism.


:blackheart: Lanie
 
many guys respond as a bull to get a chance to fuck the lady.(wife)
these guys do not have the mental buildup of a bull.they are just pretinding to b one.
they lack the self confidence of a alpha man who can take another mans wife in his presence.
many guys here are also influenced by media hypes or porns.they put on a act of superiority
which puts the cpl off.
 
many guys respond as a bull to get a chance to fuck the lady.(wife)
these guys do not have the mental buildup of a bull.they are just pretinding to b one.
they lack the self confidence of a alpha man who can take another mans wife in his presence.
many guys here are also influenced by media hypes or porns.they put on a act of superiority
which puts the cpl off.

You certainly have a point there.
 
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