The New Black Power

MonicaV said:
“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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Symbolism of this photo is off the charts erotic!
 
MonicaV said:
Maybe the big question is what percentage of female population are actively using this kind of apps to find sex. My view is many woman want to 'enjoy life' when they are 18-30 years old and then want to find a loyal and loving husband. Some of them date black and marry white, trying to keep in secret their slutty life period.
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I wish they wouldn’t keep their slutty side an secret!
 
Virginforever said:
Well....for me the only way, 90% of the time anyways, that I can get hard and cum is to watch BBC porn. Just from imagination alone Ive lost the ability to get hard even. I suspect that I've a pretty good case of erectile dysfunction. Due to addiction to BBC and porn.
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. Common Issue but not unique to BBC and porn. Common with many forms of substance abuse. You need more of it to have an effect. Have heard it said that it has to do with seratonin levels in the brain. As seratonin levels are artifically raised much higher than normal , they also return to much lower than normal. Prolonged use has the effect of pushing seratonin ( and testosterone) levels down which also has a calming effect which also explains why Beta males are usually less aggressive sexually.
 
malenature said:
To be honest, what you wrote is just depends upon you. I as long studying psychology and history student. I dont feel black are the only manly guys at all. They are only Alphas as far as society is fine and men can no longer compete in with swords and bows and arrows and knowing their strengths and weaknesses and utilizing those aspects for their advantage. I agree, modern American culture is pushing an of superior black male a continuation of an old racism of dehumanizing blacks as beasts, but when society is in turmoil, i am sure psychology of white people and other tribes like mexicans or any cucked people will definitely return to pre-porn era where no erotic imagery and low-testosterone and feminist women busting their balls and denying them sex, definitely you will meet super cocky males super testosterone charged who will not share their women with you but rather take your women and castrate you or ******* you. Some white males are very alpha like donald trump whom I hate, he is not the type of guy who will share his wife with you at all, but of course you guys will race shame him even if he is not racist. You guys are only sleeping with wives of unmanly low T cuck purpose-less self-hating liberal and cuckservative porn addicted White men and thats Absolutely fine , but I am sure You wouldnt be able with very Alpha white person or any race person with getting really hurt. You cant generalize as absolute rule of thumb, I myself will litealy not share my wife with anyone, and if someone has bigger dick made move on my wife, I will shorten his dick for him and make him hate day he was born. I watch porn and thats it but I myselr seen people from ethnic groups as well as so many white males have horse size big dicks and they are not few but amount of ego here is unbelievable and generalization as total lol. From what I see in majority, its not because blacks are manlier than even Jesus christ the almighty himself, No. Its the cucks who push their wives to have sex with black men, not the women thought about it, her husband just convince that there is better male in bed, which turn on hypergamy feature in her, but she wouldnt think about it on her own.
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Your avatar picture showing a baby. I think its NOT appropriate showing children in your the avatar, or posting any pictures here or else where.
 
Well, my post goes right up to Mr. "E". Provided, that his first avatar really showed a baby, he should better - in my opinion - attend a psychiatrist instead of joining this adult forum! Besides, his perspectives are somewhat distorted. He claims to study psychology, but doesn't even understand why disappointed and frustrated white married women stick to black studs more and more for certain reasons.
 
Estrellita said:
Well, my post goes right up to Mr. "E". Provided, that his first avatar really showed a baby, he should better - in my opinion - attend a psychiatrist instead of joining this adult forum! Besides, his perspectives are somewhat distorted. He claims to study psychology, but doesn't even understand why disappointed and frustrated white married women stick to black studs more and more for certain reasons.
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Lot of guys have a hard time accepting reality, so they go full "science" to try to explain it away.
 
ScottColettte said:
This does somewhat define the relationship my husband and I have. Not completely but I do find he get more frequent and stronger erections when he is being controlled by myself and one of my black lovers. I’m sure to what level differs case by case
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Was there a period of time where you had to learn to except that his erections were stronger for BBC then they were for you/women?
 
BBCAddictCpl said:
Was there a period of time where you had to learn to except that his erections were stronger for BBC then they were for you/women?
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Not necessarily stronger for BBC but much more turned on when he knew I was fucking a black lover. We would talk about it during sex and he would get super hard and have great orgasms. Kind of a dead give away. Lol
 
ScottColettte said:
Not necessarily stronger for BBC but much more turned on when he knew I was fucking a black lover. We would talk about it during sex and he would get super hard and have great orgasms. Kind of a dead give away. Lol
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My wife and I are both at that point now. We both accept and admit that she's wetter, I'm harder and we both cum harder and more often the more we let thoughts of BBC take control. Actually, we both struggle to orgasm at all without at least talking about it.
 
If us Black guys are so powerful, why is it that White women are still marrying White guys? Should there also be a new movement among White women to say no to a White guy at the altar and marry a Black man instead? On this site is a never ending list of White women married to White guys, hopefully in the years to come that will change. :unsure:
 
MonicaV said:
“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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what a fantastic piece of prose. i mean it. as a reader, somewhat of an intellectual, and a scorpio whos favorite topics for discussion are sex sexuality and psychology, not always or not necessarily intertwined/interrelated. personally, i dont care for what the apps have done to us or what theyve created actually whats been destroyed by them. theres no going back however. i dont use them near like i did initially in 2013 for the first time. also, i was a guest of the atty general of the u.s. eric holder at the time and xx number of years later and when i was dispersed back into common culture i was horrified to see porn having gone condom free, porn basically looking like *******, and sex chems went from a plant based to a chemical based substance. i dont do the chems-weed n poppers r more than enuff from time to time. i dont however use condoms at all anymore. and ive been told on more than one occasion "yes the sex was good the D is bomb but you didnt fuck and abuse and degrade and hurt me enough during said sex" and so, wherever you go, there you are (paraphrase of idk who, almost was gonna leave it at that and not give credit, so pleased was i with the conclusion of my reply. Smashing good show darling. thank you for your post and all you gave and put into it. thank you
 
STIFFBBC said:
If us Black guys are so powerful, why is it that White women are still marrying White guys? Should there also be a new movement among White women to say no to a White guy at the altar and marry a Black man instead? On this site is a never ending list of White women married to White guys, hopefully in the years to come that will change. :unsure:
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Understand your frustration. It's gonna take time, but with more white women sleeping with black men in record numbers. I truly believe it's just a matter of time till they realize they want to spend the rest of there lives with black men and raising a family. I already have seen this younger generation step up and actually know of two interracial weddings this summer.
 
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