This may be controversial but an inquisitive one. Say a black man met my girlfriend. Here she is Their encounter was filled with much banter mixed plenty of eye contact and body chemistry, and the sole intention of their meeting was sexual. So you go of together. You take her to your home you start to make out. Her clothes removed she pleases her man with orally. Both are aroused sufficiently for sex. The black man grabs her heels and parts her legs, then proceeds to make love to her. The sex is intense, waves erotic feelings rippling through both bodies, then as she feels more aroused she is saying fuck me, fuck me N. Oops what just came out of her mouth could be a misinterpreted as an insult, or on the other hand is it a crime of passion, that if sex were not instigated it may have not been said at all i.e. dirty talk that got out of hand. How would you deal with her and the situation. Just ask if this or something similar like this has happened and how did you respond and deal with it. Did it kill the moment or did you reciprocate by calling her a white slut etc to counter balance that.