The Few Things Men And Women Don't Know About Great Sex!!!

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Let Me Explain This:

About Men and Women:

Sensuality - Most people men and women don't understand the meaning of this and why this is one of the most important parts of getting a deep connection with your partner.

Kissing - A lost art in this millenial generation X people really do not understand the importance of this basic technique and why it is the most important part of foreplay(4-play).

Mind and Body Connection - Be able to engage a persons mind threw words and dirty talk on an intellectual level and also knowing how to have an intellegent conversation but knowing how to use words to stimulate the body also mostly with women. Note: Not about just putting a pencil in a hole lol

Sense Of Touch - Knowing how to touch your partner the right way to me men are better at this because the primary focus is always pleasing women but here is the deal most women are not that great at sex because they don't learn about the mens body or erogenous zones and yes we do have them i have been with only 3 women in my lifetime who ever took the time to spend time giving full pleasure.

On That Note:But most men don't understand this stuff either because most are to focused on their cocks

Professional Porn Sucks:Most of that bullshit you see online is that bullshit from camera angles to fake cumshots and trust me i know i used to be involved with that ******* Shane Diesel told me himself because he lives in vegas near me and goes to 24 hour fitness most of it has diluted the minds of men and women...Most of you have no clue to what real sex is really about as it takes years of learning and expressing to master very few guys and girls especially the youngins take time to learn it.

Karma Sutra and Tantra - This is a whole new level of sexual and spritual connection bottom line is i have been studying many videos and books on this stuff as it teaches how to make a women orgasm on multiple levels from 5-stage full body orgasms to full blown body shaking bed-wetting squirting orgasms.
Note: For men the sense of touch to a women is unreal and orgasm control is mind blowing for men as well as full body orgasms and multiple orgasms also.

Sensual and Tantric Message - This is also another thing most do not know about as this releases a chemical hormone called"oxytocin" a pleasure hormone which enables heighten sexual feelings and cuddling which helps a person to relax think happy endings for both men and women.
Note: This can be mixed in with regular body message to give an intense relaxed feeling which if performed right on a woman especially can open up new ways to make her have a full body orgasm or a squirting orgasm even before her g-spot or clitoral stimulation.

BDSM and Beastmode Sex - This is also a great part of sex for the dominance and mind and body control also like things from: Spanking,Nibbling,Biting,Candle Wax,Ropes and Chains,Sex Swings and Toys, Hair Pulling,Air Fucking,Hard Doggystyle,Whips and the list goes on...But this a fun part i like as you can get into the minds of your partners but i like to control the situation and hear the screams and moans of women in pure sweet bliss and extacy.

Education - This is for both men and women keep learning about each other because as the generations pass the lifestyle is dumbbing down rapidly as people are watching way to much porn and not really paying attention to their partners or what is really going on.

In Closing - I know most will not read it as it is way over you're heads as most are not as smart or as keen as the real people with an open mind to learn and better themselves...bottom line is i miss the ol,school way and people i had in my life before as the quality of people both men and women have dropped to an all time low.
Note:If you are offended then i am hitting the right nerves and this article is doing its job as the really smart and sophisitcated will understand my message and the dummies will not.

Peace,
Superdick
 
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Hahaaa BRUHHHH...you KNOW I'ma go in on this. This is excellent info! We both know you will probably get some off-the-wall responses but let me go head and extrapolate on some of these topics...

YES, the Art of Sex is definitely losing ground in the new millennium. We live in a fast-food, instant gratification, Me generation where superficial porn sex has permeated the minds and altered the mental state of what TRUE SEX is really about!

Even in this awesome forum, a lot (and I do mean a LOT) of visitors and purveyors here are STUCK in 'fantasy mode' - they are expecting a Hollywood porn experience. Ironically, most of the people hunting for this FANTASY they themselves are not of porn quality, LMAO! But i digress...

I want to reply and do a line by line of the topis that you expressed. But ONE in particular made me laugh out loud:
Professional Porn Sucks! :bounce:

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Most of that bullshit you see online is that bullshit from camera angles to fake cumshots and trust me i know i used to be involved with that ******* Shane Diesel told me himself because he lives in vegas near me and goes to 24 hour fitness most of it has diluted the minds of men and women...Most of you have no clue to what real sex is really about as it takes years of learning and expressing to master very few guys and girls especially the youngins take time to learn it.]

YES! See.... most people have NO IDEA what happens on a REAL porn set. I have - and i think YOU have too - been on actual shoots! It is the most arduous, stop-and-go ******* you can imagine. Porn is a LOt of stopping/starting and a LOT of really skillful edits which make a scene APPEAR to be a seamless, one-take shoot. This is called 'production' lol. These are TRUE professionals who train to do what they do hours a day, every day, year in and year out. Its just IMPOSSIBLE for regular people to come anywhere near what they do lol lol

Now granted, some of us are CLOSE to that quality.... :cool: but to sustain that level of 'excellence', its a true Profession. It's why we can only name a FEW studs in the entire industry. I'll say it again.... there are only a handful of top studs.... IN THE ENTIRE INDUSTRY. And yet, regular people are looking for THAT in real life, smh....

Here is a recent comment I made about people Chasing the Big Ones , expecting porn-quality meetups in real life.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/no-luck-at-all-on-this-site.71301/page-6#post-1290078

This is not a knock against looking for QUALITY meets...but come on folks, don't expect these photos to be real porn quality super-Bulls showing up at your front door lol

then again, my sexy hotwife GF @Cassidy1121 might argue on my behalf :rolleyes:
 
...bottom line is i miss the ol,school way and people i had in my life before as the quality of people both men and women have dropped to an all time low.
That's because we now live in a "shake-n-bake" society ... one with a desire for instant gratifications with little or no efforts as we juggle many 'balls'. Its not really hard to figure out, and its just hard to accept for the 'old school' players, that's all. So, don't be too terribly hard on the 'millenial generation X people' .... they have their own generational challenges, believe me.
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Hahaaa BRUHHHH...you KNOW I'ma go in on this. This is excellent info! We both know you will probably get some off-the-wall responses but let me go head and extrapolate on some of these topics...

YES, the Art of Sex is definitely losing ground in the new millennium. We live in a fast-food, instant gratification, Me generation where superficial porn sex has permeated the minds and altered the mental state of what TRUE SEX is really about!

Even in this awesome forum, a lot (and I do mean a LOT) of visitors and purveyors here are STUCK in 'fantasy mode' - they are expecting a Hollywood porn experience. Ironically, most of the people hunting for this FANTASY they themselves are not of porn quality, LMAO! But i digress...

I want to reply and do a line by line of the topis that you expressed. But ONE in particular made me laugh out loud:
Professional Porn Sucks! :bounce:

[
Most of that bullshit you see online is that bullshit from camera angles to fake cumshots and trust me i know i used to be involved with that ******* Shane Diesel told me himself because he lives in vegas near me and goes to 24 hour fitness most of it has diluted the minds of men and women...Most of you have no clue to what real sex is really about as it takes years of learning and expressing to master very few guys and girls especially the youngins take time to learn it.]

YES! See.... most people have NO IDEA what happens on a REAL porn set. I have - and i think YOU have too - been on actual shoots! It is the most arduous, stop-and-go ******* you can imagine. Porn is a LOt of stopping/starting and a LOT of really skillful edits which make a scene APPEAR to be a seamless, one-take shoot. This is called 'production' lol. These are TRUE professionals who train to do what they do hours a day, every day, year in and year out. Its just IMPOSSIBLE for regular people to come anywhere near what they do lol lol

Now granted, some of us are CLOSE to that quality.... :cool: but to sustain that level of 'excellence', its a true Profession. It's why we can only name a FEW studs in the entire industry. I'll say it again.... there are only a handful of top studs.... IN THE ENTIRE INDUSTRY. And yet, regular people are looking for THAT in real life, smh....

Here is a recent comment I made about people Chasing the Big Ones , expecting porn-quality meetups in real life.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/no-luck-at-all-on-this-site.71301/page-6#post-1290078

This is not a knock against looking for QUALITY meets...but come on folks, don't expect these photos to be real porn quality super-Bulls showing up at your front door lol

then again, my sexy hotwife GF @Cassidy1121 might argue on my behalf :rolleyes:
Exactly now you know what I meant I have done shoots both amateur and magazine way back in the day and the stop and start,posing and keeping hard is super hard why do you think naughty America wanted to hire me because I have been there done that in Miami also I know Shane diesel and a lot of others who say they don't like young females do to all the bullshit they bring to the industry I also know flash brown and a lot of female and amateur females who I talk to hate the industry and the sex in it.

But I knew you would give a great response that is why I tagged you and the others because you all have brains on top of your dicks:bounce::cold:
 
That's because we now live in a "shake-n-bake" society ... one with a desire for instant gratifications with little or no efforts as we juggle many 'balls'. Its not really hard to figure out, and its just hard to accept for the 'old school' players, that's all. So, don't be too terribly hard on the 'millenial generation X people' .... they have their own generational challenges, believe me.
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Thanks Mac man it's good to hear from you bro been how many years me and you go way back old school with many interesting post and to be honest you have to go harder on these youngsters because they are fucking it up for us old raw dogs that still stay true to the game of life and play.

Hope you and family are well bro thanks for chiming in big homie;)
 
Let Me Explain This:

About Men and Women:

Sensuality - Most people men and women don't understand the meaning of this and why this is one of the most important parts of getting a deep connection with your partner.

Kissing - A lost art in this millenial generation X people really do not understand the importance of this basic technique and why it is the most important part of foreplay(4-play).

Mind and Body Connection - Be able to engage a persons mind threw words and dirty talk on an intellectual level and also knowing how to have an intellegent conversation but knowing how to use words to stimulate the body also mostly with women. Note: Not about just putting a pencil in a hole lol

Sense Of Touch - Knowing how to touch your partner the right way to me men are better at this because the primary focus is always pleasing women but here is the deal most women are not that great at sex because they don't learn about the mens body or erogenous zones and yes we do have them i have been with only 3 women in my lifetime who ever took the time to spend time giving full pleasure.

On That Note:But most men don't understand this stuff either because most are to focused on their cocks

Professional Porn Sucks:Most of that bullshit you see online is that bullshit from camera angles to fake cumshots and trust me i know i used to be involved with that ******* Shane Diesel told me himself because he lives in vegas near me and goes to 24 hour fitness most of it has diluted the minds of men and women...Most of you have no clue to what real sex is really about as it takes years of learning and expressing to master very few guys and girls especially the youngins take time to learn it.

Karma Sutra and Tantra - This is a whole new level of sexual and spritual connection bottom line is i have been studying many videos and books on this stuff as it teaches how to make a women orgasm on multiple levels from 5-stage full body orgasms to full blown body shaking bed-wetting squirting orgasms.
Note: For men the sense of touch to a women is unreal and orgasm control is mind blowing for men as well as full body orgasms and multiple orgasms also.

Sensual and Tantric Message - This is also another thing most do not know about as this releases a chemical hormone called"oxytocin" a pleasure hormone which enables heighten sexual feelings and cuddling which helps a person to relax think happy endings for both men and women.
Note: This can be mixed in with regular body message to give an intense relaxed feeling which if performed right on a woman especially can open up new ways to make her have a full body orgasm or a squirting orgasm even before her g-spot or clitoral stimulation.

BDSM and Beastmode Sex - This is also a great part of sex for the dominance and mind and body control also like things from: Spanking,Nibbling,Biting,Candle Wax,Ropes and Chains,Sex Swings and Toys, Hair Pulling,Air Fucking,Hard Doggystyle,Whips and the list goes on...But this a fun part i like as you can get into the minds of your partners but i like to control the situation and hear the screams and moans of women in pure sweet bliss and extacy.

Education - This is for both men and women keep learning about each other because as the generations pass the lifestyle is dumbbing down rapidly as people are watching way to much porn and not really paying attention to their partners or what is really going on.

In Closing - I know most will not read it as it is way over you're heads as most are not as smart or as keen as the real people with an open mind to learn and better themselves...bottom line is i miss the ol,school way and people i had in my life before as the quality of people both men and women have dropped to an all time low.
Note:If you are offended then i am hitting the right nerves and this article is doing its job as the really smart and sophisitcated will understand my message and the dummies will not.

Peace,
Superdick

Sensuality/Kissing - A lost art in this millenial - Indeed. Not a knock against younger people, But there are many in this lifestyle who simply want a large object to ram their insides. And I say that exactly the way I mean it. Unfortunately, I have met some who have a very 'selfish' fantasy which they view a person as basically a 'dildo with a pulse'. Not much sensuality/kissing involved. That is not my ideal situation and I typically turn down such requests.

Sense Of Touch -If you find a woman who is just as INVESTED in your pleasure as her own...keep her! The irony is that plenty of women lament the lack of men who can make them feel special, but there are just as many women who lack those same skills. this goes back to sensuality and kissing - sex is give and take, or to quote the Beatles 'In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make' :)

Mind and Body Connection - Call it what you want, but Guys nowadays just lack Game. 'Game' cannot really be explained - you either 'got Game', or you DON'T 'got Game' :p - But the mental stimulation is what gets the kitty excited and wet.
Fuck a woman's mind and you can soon Fuck her body.

BDSM and Beastmode Sex- My FAVORITE subject. I Love BDSM and Beastmode sex :devil: Once a person crosses into that... arena, it is damn near impossible to have 'vanilla sex' ever again. it's kind of like what Chris Rock said:
"Women can't go backwards in lifestyle, and Men can't go backwards sexually!' hahaa
But yes, once you've tied a woman up and blindfolded her, spanked her, subdued/subjugated, collared/leash, crawled her around, publicly fucked her, choked her,[insert kink here], regular sex just won't do anymore.

This is a great post Bruh, and hopefully more people will read it and take some of it to heart. Yes, this is a dying art, and yet there are those who keep that flame going.

Even though nowadays, that 'flame' is the flashlight app on our smartphones :bounce:
 
Exactly now you know what I meant I have done shoots both amateur and magazine way back in the day and the stop and start,posing and keeping hard is super hard why do you think naughty America wanted to hire me because I have been there done that in Miami also I know Shane diesel and a lot of others who say they don't like young females do to all the bullshit they bring to the industry I also know flash brown and a lot of female and amateur females who I talk to hate the industry and the sex in it.

But I knew you would give a great response that is why I tagged you and the others because you all have brains on top of your dicks:bounce::cold:
Flash Brown is the MAN. My favorite new-est male performer :cool: the stuff he is doing on Blacked is just...inspirational. lol
 
Sensuality/Kissing - A lost art in this millenial - Indeed. Not a knock against younger people, But there are many in this lifestyle who simply want a large object to ram their insides. And I say that exactly the way I mean it. Unfortunately, I have met some who have a very 'selfish' fantasy which they view a person as basically a 'dildo with a pulse'. Not much sensuality/kissing involved. That is not my ideal situation and I typically turn down such requests.

Sense Of Touch -If you find a woman who is just as INVESTED in your pleasure as her own...keep her! The irony is that plenty of women lament the lack of men who can make them feel special, but there are just as many women who lack those same skills. this goes back to sensuality and kissing - sex is give and take, or to quote the Beatles 'In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make' :)

Mind and Body Connection - Call it what you want, but Guys nowadays just lack Game. 'Game' cannot really be explained - you either 'got Game', or you DON'T 'got Game' :p - But the mental stimulation is what gets the kitty excited and wet.
Fuck a woman's mind and you can soon Fuck her body.

BDSM and Beastmode Sex- My FAVORITE subject. I Love BDSM and Beastmode sex :devil: Once a person crosses into that... arena, it is damn near impossible to have 'vanilla sex' ever again. it's kind of like what Chris Rock said:
"Women can't go backwards in lifestyle, and Men can't go backwards sexually!' hahaa
But yes, once you've tied a woman up and blindfolded her, spanked her, subdued/subjugated, collared/leash, crawled her around, publicly fucked her, choked her,[insert kink here], regular sex just won't do anymore.

This is a great post Bruh, and hopefully more people will read it and take some of it to heart. Yes, this is a dying art, and yet there are those who keep that flame going.

Even though nowadays, that 'flame' is the flashlight app on our smartphones :bounce:
I am glad you understand bro where I am coming from even the size queens are just as bad as they no nothing about size of a cock and the size queens are usually not very attractive or good in bed as I have experienced in real life and on set I noticed the vanilla women you met on regular sites are hotter more defined and better in bed than these lifestyle women also;)
 
Fully agree with the sentiments discussed in this topic...too many guys and in some cases women...expect great sex without putting in the time or effort to really explore/educate themselves about pleasure and sensuality...to have mind blowing sex you've got to engage your entire being and be open to your partner's as well...mind, body and spirit..total engagement...As stated above when your partners brain is involved exceptional things are possible...and lets not forget about your partners pleasure first...;)
 
Let Me Explain This:

About Men and Women:

Sensuality - Most people men and women don't understand the meaning of this and why this is one of the most important parts of getting a deep connection with your partner.

Kissing - A lost art in this millenial generation X people really do not understand the importance of this basic technique and why it is the most important part of foreplay(4-play).

Mind and Body Connection - Be able to engage a persons mind threw words and dirty talk on an intellectual level and also knowing how to have an intellegent conversation but knowing how to use words to stimulate the body also mostly with women. Note: Not about just putting a pencil in a hole lol

Sense Of Touch - Knowing how to touch your partner the right way to me men are better at this because the primary focus is always pleasing women but here is the deal most women are not that great at sex because they don't learn about the mens body or erogenous zones and yes we do have them i have been with only 3 women in my lifetime who ever took the time to spend time giving full pleasure.

On That Note:But most men don't understand this stuff either because most are to focused on their cocks

Professional Porn Sucks:Most of that bullshit you see online is that bullshit from camera angles to fake cumshots and trust me i know i used to be involved with that ******* Shane Diesel told me himself because he lives in vegas near me and goes to 24 hour fitness most of it has diluted the minds of men and women...Most of you have no clue to what real sex is really about as it takes years of learning and expressing to master very few guys and girls especially the youngins take time to learn it.

Karma Sutra and Tantra - This is a whole new level of sexual and spritual connection bottom line is i have been studying many videos and books on this stuff as it teaches how to make a women orgasm on multiple levels from 5-stage full body orgasms to full blown body shaking bed-wetting squirting orgasms.
Note: For men the sense of touch to a women is unreal and orgasm control is mind blowing for men as well as full body orgasms and multiple orgasms also.

Sensual and Tantric Message - This is also another thing most do not know about as this releases a chemical hormone called"oxytocin" a pleasure hormone which enables heighten sexual feelings and cuddling which helps a person to relax think happy endings for both men and women.
Note: This can be mixed in with regular body message to give an intense relaxed feeling which if performed right on a woman especially can open up new ways to make her have a full body orgasm or a squirting orgasm even before her g-spot or clitoral stimulation.

BDSM and Beastmode Sex - This is also a great part of sex for the dominance and mind and body control also like things from: Spanking,Nibbling,Biting,Candle Wax,Ropes and Chains,Sex Swings and Toys, Hair Pulling,Air Fucking,Hard Doggystyle,Whips and the list goes on...But this a fun part i like as you can get into the minds of your partners but i like to control the situation and hear the screams and moans of women in pure sweet bliss and extacy.

Education - This is for both men and women keep learning about each other because as the generations pass the lifestyle is dumbbing down rapidly as people are watching way to much porn and not really paying attention to their partners or what is really going on.

In Closing - I know most will not read it as it is way over you're heads as most are not as smart or as keen as the real people with an open mind to learn and better themselves...bottom line is i miss the ol,school way and people i had in my life before as the quality of people both men and women have dropped to an all time low.
Note:If you are offended then i am hitting the right nerves and this article is doing its job as the really smart and sophisitcated will understand my message and the dummies will not.

Peace,
Superdick

We all have different thoughts about what is great sex. Of course, having great sex is more of a collaborative effort. When you are confident, sexy and attractive on the inside, and excite your partner on the outside, there’s little that can go wrong or come in between you and a potentially great sex encounter.
 
We all have different thoughts about what is great sex. Of course, having great sex is more of a collaborative effort. When you are confident, sexy and attractive on the inside, and excite your partner on the outside, there’s little that can go wrong or come in between you and a potentially great sex encounter.
Facts bro but you know what I mean in this day an age it's all about women and remember the few men like us that actually learn about women and try to be the best we can but most women do not focus on us men nor take the time to learn about what pleasures us to be honest I have only been with a select few(I still play with) that know about how to give and take effort...Remember we are in a man-bashing weak minded beta generation;)
 
I was skeptical at first when I read the title. But I can agree with most of it. Tired of the macho wam bam mentality around here! I enjoyed reading it. Thinking you can't learn something new is a very bad attitude. And very unattractive.
 
I was skeptical at first when I read the title. But I can agree with most of it. Tired of the macho wam bam mentality around here! I enjoyed reading it. Thinking you can't learn something new is a very bad attitude. And very unattractive.
Facts babe I wish there were more females like you I could spend time I wrote that for both sexes as I am more of an take your time kind of guy who knows I am old school but great sexual chemistry comes from great mind and body connection thanks for chiming in great to hear a real ladies opinion;)
 
Facts babe I wish there were more females like you I could spend time I wrote that for both sexes as I am more of an take your time kind of guy who knows I am old school but great sexual chemistry comes from great mind and body connection thanks for chiming in great to hear a real ladies opinion;)

Well you are very welcome. Most men get there sexual tips from watching porn. Which is a very very bad idea. The only tip you should get from porn is to
Physically groom yourself. Be physically appealing. The rest is not reality. Women are complex. Take your time. Talk. Communicate. Explore. Experiment. Be unselfish. Be openminded.
Not to get to deep into it. But I run a beauty spa from my home. My office has a massage table. Once a week me and my partner explore each other head to toe. Dark lights. Relaxing music. No talking. Blindfolded. It's very mental. Spiritual. We do each other on different days. So you can fully relax knowing it's all about you. Penatration is not always needed. It's amazing! You need to be open mined and very very very creative!!!!!
 
Well you are very welcome. Most men get there sexual tips from watching porn. Which is a very very bad idea. The only tip you should get from porn is to
Physically groom yourself. Be physically appealing. The rest is not reality. Women are complex. Take your time. Talk. Communicate. Explore. Experiment. Be unselfish. Be openminded.
Not to get to deep into it. But I run a beauty spa from my home. My office has a massage table. Once a week me and my partner explore each other head to toe. Dark lights. Relaxing music. No talking. Blindfolded. It's very mental. Spiritual. We do each other on different days. So you can fully relax knowing it's all about you. Penatration is not always needed. It's amazing! You need to be open mined and very very very creative!!!!!
Exactly that is what I like it is good to take time to understand mind and body problem is all this rush stuff gets annoying. It is good to take a step back and enjoy each other and the moment and yes to much porn stuff is really messing up people's perception of the real world nothing wrong with porn but there is a big difference between sensuality and just putting your cock in a hole nice to see a woman actually pay attention to this also as I have not had much connections with them on this level you sound like my kind of woman and as always good luck on your search;)
 
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