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The Evolution of Interracial Cuckolding
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Great cuckolding comes from inner strength. Wife has her hubby’s LOVE and pure sex with her Black Bull. Hubby has his Wife’s LOVE and joy in seeing her sexually satiated with her Black Bull.
Society has us fighting our instincts. Females in all of nature are generally attracted to stringer males. Weak males are left on the sideline they get none. Only we decide to use other factors and place rules that don't agree with our natural instincts. If we were all lets say wild I would be at the top of the mountain with my woman looking down on the weaklings beating off wishing they could have some
I have periodically checked out this now over 3 year old thread occasionally and find some responses to be interesting. Here is my view on this subject, for what it's worth, sorry for the length:
Traditionally, the human male is unusual among mammals in that he feeds, protects, and cares for his offspring and their mom. But this investment is genetically risky. If a man’s wife has a lover, he could be investing in another man’s baby, which is a form of genetic suicide. Any genes that incline him to be indifferent to the risk of cuckoldry will lose out over evolutionary time to genes that incline him to be vigilant. As always, genes don’t pull the strings of behavior directly; they exert their influence by shaping the emotions in the male brain, in this case, the emotion of sexual jealousy. Men are enraged at the thought of their partner’s infidelity, and they take steps to block that possibility. One step is to threaten her and her prospective partners and to enforce the threat. Another is to control her movements and her ability to use sexual signals to attract other men. This manifests itself with him not wanting her to wear revealing clothing or slutty makeup.
I was inclined to be this way when I was younger and early on in my marriage to Amie. My wife is a very attractive woman and men do notice her and pay attention and flirt with her. I have to admit that I noticed when she wore revealing clothing whenever she went out. I never forbid her from doing so but I was on high alert and sometimes suggested clothing less revealing. The thing is a something happened to me after we had been married for a few years. I found myself proud of the fact that I had such a sexy wife and wanted to show her off. I wanted other men to be jealous of me and I wanted to see how beautiful my trophy wife was I was. I encouraged Amie to wear skimpier clothing and more makeup, all the while broadcasting that she was off limits and I was the alpha male when it came to her.
The thing is, after more time went by and I saw the attention she was getting I started visualizing what it might look like to see her having sex with another man. I also started having fantasies about her stripping in a club so other men could see what I really had. The idea of having every square inch of her beautiful body exposed to a club full of men really turned me on. I kept this to myself and never mentioned it to her until much later. Instinctively, I knew that I would be playing with fire if these fantasies were ever lived out but it didn't stop me from having those hot thoughts.
I did keep these fantasies a secret from my wife until several years into our marriage when she let it slip out that before we were married she had had sex with many black men. This shocked me because Amie is a sweet southern belle who comes from a VERY conservative religious family who also happens to be racist and did not approve of mixed race relationships. She told me her family knew nothing of her dating, never mind her having sex with black men. Even though she was turned on by them, she knew she needed to keep it a secret from her family. This worked because most of her black dating happened when she was in college which was thousands for miles away her family.
For some reason this turned me on and I asked her to tell me more details. She told me that none of them were long term and she was only 18 and 19 years old at the time. She said she really enjoyed making love to them and was so turned on by them that she would do more adventurous things than she would otherwise even consider. I kept pestering her for more details and finally my previous fantasies bubbled to the surface. Suddenly I blurted out, "Do you ever feel like you would like to have another black man as a lover?" Amie reacted with shock at the question but after time we discussed it more and finally agreed to try to find a black man for her to have sex with while I watched.
I really didn't know what to expect but I knew I would be relinquishing my alpha male position temporarily to anther man and even though I don't think of myself as a cuckold, the fact was I was going to be cucked by my wife. Traditionally, allowing your wife to cuckold you is taboo in mainstream society. To have it be with a black man is even more taboo, not as much so as decades ago but certainly frowned upon by many, especially my wife's family. I think the popularity and sexual turn on of interracial cuckolding is because of this perceived taboo and the risk involved with the wife producing a mixed race baby which would be hard hide from "polite" society.
I had all this in mind the first time I shared her with black lovers and it was an extreme turn on for me. I was surprised how much she got into it and how much she enjoyed the sex. I was shocked at what she let them do to her, it seemed like nothing was off limits This led me to experience pangs of jealousy and even more surprising was my how I felt after I watched them make love. I don't think I ever had a more intense erection and I couldn't wait to have sex with her. The sex was the most intense I had ever experienced, I screwed her frantically and harder than I ever did before and I don't think I ever cum so hard and so much. I realized I was attempting to reclaim her pussy and I wanted to make sure the sperm in my semen had a chance to compete with theirs. Amie took them bareback and they cum inside her, I had assumed condoms would be used. By doing so I was reasserting my alpha male role in our marriage.
This is an excerpt from a Phychology Today article seems to confirm the reasons for my fantasies and my response to seeing my wife have sex black men:
"One act of transgression that deserves special attention is sexual betrayal. But oddly enough, in these scenarios it’s not the husband but the wife who’s the transgressor. Ogas and Gaddam single out the subject of cuckold porn as immensely popular on the Web. And the question naturally arises as to why such a genre would so appeal to men—why it would be the second most popular interest (following Youth) for straight males on English-speaking search engines. How is it that just the thought of their wives cheating on them could lead men to experience intense arousal?
Ogas and Gaddam provide an evolutionary explanation for this seemingly masochistic fantasy. To them, it’s sperm competition — a physiological and behavioral adaptation “found in a dazzling variety of species” — that best accounts for the phenomenon. A man’s believing that his mate may have had sex with another male may compel him (because of such an adaptation) to have intercourse with her as soon afterwards, and as forcefully, as possible. His very jealousy may drive him to perform with a lust absent earlier, culminating in a quicker ejaculation and a “larger load” being deposited inside her, unconsciously calculated to oust the other males’s sperm.
As interesting, and possibly valid, as this analysis may be (and I’ve condensed it somewhat), I’d like to propose a simpler, non-evolutionary hypothesis for males’ common obsession with cuckold porn. This is one that seems to have been overlooked by these authors (and others as well). Let’s assume that the male’s relationship with his partner (1) is no longer novel (and novelty itself can incite substantial sexual excitement), and (2) is a committed one, with all the conflicts and complexities such a union inevitably brings to light. In such instances, he can’t really regard his spouse two-dimensionally — as a sex object. And as I’ve noted in previous posts, men generally are wired to be most turned on by women when they’re able, reductively, to “objectify” them. If my hypothesis is correct, then through imagining other males relating to their wife as really “hot” — and their spouse as wildly turned on (another key determinant for male sexual arousal) — through such “illicit” fantasizing (or, we might say, through bringing their “mirror neurons” into play) they can regenerate a sexual excitement that may have all but disappeared from the comparatively mundane circumstances of their married life."
Traditionally, the human male is unusual among mammals in that he feeds, protects, and cares for his offspring and their mom. But this investment is genetically risky. If a man’s wife has a lover, he could be investing in another man’s baby, which is a form of genetic suicide. Any genes that incline him to be indifferent to the risk of cuckoldry will lose out over evolutionary time to genes that incline him to be vigilant. As always, genes don’t pull the strings of behavior directly; they exert their influence by shaping the emotions in the male brain, in this case, the emotion of sexual jealousy. Men are enraged at the thought of their partner’s infidelity, and they take steps to block that possibility. One step is to threaten her and her prospective partners and to enforce the threat. Another is to control her movements and her ability to use sexual signals to attract other men. This manifests itself with him not wanting her to wear revealing clothing or slutty makeup.
I was inclined to be this way when I was younger and early on in my marriage to Amie. My wife is a very attractive woman and men do notice her and pay attention and flirt with her. I have to admit that I noticed when she wore revealing clothing whenever she went out. I never forbid her from doing so but I was on high alert and sometimes suggested clothing less revealing. The thing is a something happened to me after we had been married for a few years. I found myself proud of the fact that I had such a sexy wife and wanted to show her off. I wanted other men to be jealous of me and I wanted to see how beautiful my trophy wife was I was. I encouraged Amie to wear skimpier clothing and more makeup, all the while broadcasting that she was off limits and I was the alpha male when it came to her.
The thing is, after more time went by and I saw the attention she was getting I started visualizing what it might look like to see her having sex with another man. I also started having fantasies about her stripping in a club so other men could see what I really had. The idea of having every square inch of her beautiful body exposed to a club full of men really turned me on. I kept this to myself and never mentioned it to her until much later. Instinctively, I knew that I would be playing with fire if these fantasies were ever lived out but it didn't stop me from having those hot thoughts.
I did keep these fantasies a secret from my wife until several years into our marriage when she let it slip out that before we were married she had had sex with many black men. This shocked me because Amie is a sweet southern belle who comes from a VERY conservative religious family who also happens to be racist and did not approve of mixed race relationships. She told me her family knew nothing of her dating, never mind her having sex with black men. Even though she was turned on by them, she knew she needed to keep it a secret from her family. This worked because most of her black dating happened when she was in college which was thousands for miles away her family.
For some reason this turned me on and I asked her to tell me more details. She told me that none of them were long term and she was only 18 and 19 years old at the time. She said she really enjoyed making love to them and was so turned on by them that she would do more adventurous things than she would otherwise even consider. I kept pestering her for more details and finally my previous fantasies bubbled to the surface. Suddenly I blurted out, "Do you ever feel like you would like to have another black man as a lover?" Amie reacted with shock at the question but after time we discussed it more and finally agreed to try to find a black man for her to have sex with while I watched.
I really didn't know what to expect but I knew I would be relinquishing my alpha male position temporarily to anther man and even though I don't think of myself as a cuckold, the fact was I was going to be cucked by my wife. Traditionally, allowing your wife to cuckold you is taboo in mainstream society. To have it be with a black man is even more taboo, not as much so as decades ago but certainly frowned upon by many, especially my wife's family. I think the popularity and sexual turn on of interracial cuckolding is because of this perceived taboo and the risk involved with the wife producing a mixed race baby which would be hard hide from "polite" society.
I had all this in mind the first time I shared her with black lovers and it was an extreme turn on for me. I was surprised how much she got into it and how much she enjoyed the sex. I was shocked at what she let them do to her, it seemed like nothing was off limits This led me to experience pangs of jealousy and even more surprising was my how I felt after I watched them make love. I don't think I ever had a more intense erection and I couldn't wait to have sex with her. The sex was the most intense I had ever experienced, I screwed her frantically and harder than I ever did before and I don't think I ever cum so hard and so much. I realized I was attempting to reclaim her pussy and I wanted to make sure the sperm in my semen had a chance to compete with theirs. Amie took them bareback and they cum inside her, I had assumed condoms would be used. By doing so I was reasserting my alpha male role in our marriage.
This is an excerpt from a Phychology Today article seems to confirm the reasons for my fantasies and my response to seeing my wife have sex black men:
"One act of transgression that deserves special attention is sexual betrayal. But oddly enough, in these scenarios it’s not the husband but the wife who’s the transgressor. Ogas and Gaddam single out the subject of cuckold porn as immensely popular on the Web. And the question naturally arises as to why such a genre would so appeal to men—why it would be the second most popular interest (following Youth) for straight males on English-speaking search engines. How is it that just the thought of their wives cheating on them could lead men to experience intense arousal?
Ogas and Gaddam provide an evolutionary explanation for this seemingly masochistic fantasy. To them, it’s sperm competition — a physiological and behavioral adaptation “found in a dazzling variety of species” — that best accounts for the phenomenon. A man’s believing that his mate may have had sex with another male may compel him (because of such an adaptation) to have intercourse with her as soon afterwards, and as forcefully, as possible. His very jealousy may drive him to perform with a lust absent earlier, culminating in a quicker ejaculation and a “larger load” being deposited inside her, unconsciously calculated to oust the other males’s sperm.
As interesting, and possibly valid, as this analysis may be (and I’ve condensed it somewhat), I’d like to propose a simpler, non-evolutionary hypothesis for males’ common obsession with cuckold porn. This is one that seems to have been overlooked by these authors (and others as well). Let’s assume that the male’s relationship with his partner (1) is no longer novel (and novelty itself can incite substantial sexual excitement), and (2) is a committed one, with all the conflicts and complexities such a union inevitably brings to light. In such instances, he can’t really regard his spouse two-dimensionally — as a sex object. And as I’ve noted in previous posts, men generally are wired to be most turned on by women when they’re able, reductively, to “objectify” them. If my hypothesis is correct, then through imagining other males relating to their wife as really “hot” — and their spouse as wildly turned on (another key determinant for male sexual arousal) — through such “illicit” fantasizing (or, we might say, through bringing their “mirror neurons” into play) they can regenerate a sexual excitement that may have all but disappeared from the comparatively mundane circumstances of their married life."
