The Cuckold Couple Training Club (Help Thread)

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by hungteacher, Nov 27, 2015.

  1. hungteacher

    hungteacher Active Member

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    Hello Fellow B2W posters

    Its great to be a part of this community. I have talked to so many great people, from married women, to cuckold wannebes, to couples trying to find new info.

    What is a common thread is that there are a lot of obstacles to overcome in order to live this lifestyle if you go that far...or just to have your wife have sex 1 or 2 times. If you are a single female, the biggest challenge is finding a man that can be relaxed enough to understand that you just want his cock, not the drama that comes along with it.

    So I have been asked by several couples if I could start a place to chat, learn, ask questions and possibly get training...so here it is...
    This is your thread...so post about whatever challenges or obstacles you face...for those that have experience, post about your real life experience.
     
  2. BBCcuckBiCpl

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    Married 45 years, cuckolded hubby for 44 years, black only for 12. For us it is wonderful but love, understanding, and mutual desire makes it work for us.
     
  3. MacNfries

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    .....Over the years, here, I've seen more than a few start a "help" thread for inexperienced white couples. The one common thing that most all new couples fail to provide is background information on themselves, or even taking the time to fill out their profile page. That's the first place I go ( that and their prior posts ) before I even give a new couple suggestions. There are so many variables that come into play for this activity to meet its expectations, and no two couples I've seen that have the same, exact obstacles or challenges. So, the more information you can provide the forum, the more likely some of the responses and suggestions you get back will be applicable to your own situation. This is not a "one size fits all" type of topic.
    .....It's also good to have a good understanding of what cuckolding is, and to clearly state what you're wanting to achieve by doing it. I dare say that if you asked 10 people here to give their understanding of what cuckolding is, you'd probably get back 10 different answers. So, again, its hard to talk about a topic if everyone has a different understanding of what the topic really is. The old saying goes ... "Junk IN, Junk OUT".
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  4. hungteacher

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    @MacNfries wonderful post. To everyone who reads this thread...take what Mac says into account. I couldn't agree more, but 100% of what you put in is what you will get out. If you want to make cuckolding real, you need to be real and honest about it.

    The last couple that emailed me - they arent sure they want it to be real, but they want to incorporate the dynamic into their relationship..so I made some suggestions they can do together without "needing" another man to fulfill the fantasy. They listened really hard to my outline and instructions and began incorporating it into their sexual play - they are really happy with the results. They may at some point bring another man in, but for now they are enjoying leading the female led lifestyle.
     
  5. Mrs.InCharge

    Mrs.InCharge Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Mac is right. Less concern over "hunting" more concern with learning about what your doing
     
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  6. BBCcuckBiCpl

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    Mac is on-the-money with his comment about asking 10 people about cuckolding and you will get 10 different answers. What works for us, may not work for you.

    Communication is important and complimentary desires are critical. With some it is a game, with others it is a life-style. I need sex with black men, but I do consider my cuck's desires and make sure that we both have the pleasures we both crave. IMHO in a cuckold marriage the wife is in-charge, with that comes the responsibility to keep their marriage vibrant for both.
     
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  7. hungteacher

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    @BBCcuckBiCpl I have to agree that there is responsibility to keep the marriage vibrant. I recommend spelling out the roles before you start having sex with other men, its important that the wife know what her husband likes and doesnt like, so that she can feel comfortable knowing she can let loose without worrying if her husband's feelings are hurt.

    Yes, there are feelings and emotions in a cuckold relationship..if there aren't then you guys arent a strong marriage to begin with.

    when I train a married woman, i am interested in learning about her erotic thoughts and desires and then turning those desires into "needs", so if she enjoys giving head, i want to turn that into - as soon as a cock touches her tongue, into her pussy dripping wet.
     
  8. BBCcuckBiCpl

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    That is true. Unfortunately the downside is fantasy vs reality. We have been with several first timers where the husband has all these erotic fantasies until he sees his wife begging another man to fuck her. Or seeing his wife going crazy over sex with a woman. We have had some bad experiences when the wife loves it too much. So I agree completely, communication is key. I have found that if the wife involves her husband more: holding his hand, looking at him for reassurance, calling him to be with her, kissing hubby while the bull is deep inside, all go to making hubby feel at ease and part of her pleasure. I think a more intense cuckolding grows over time. We are both very different today then we were 44 years ago.
     
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  9. hungteacher

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    To that point, when i train married women and cuckold couples, I do not have the wife have sex with anyone other than her husband for the first 2-3 months. Taking that next step is very critical to the long term relationship of the marriage and a cuckold relationship that ends in divorce is a complete failure on both parties. I try to instill confidence in both partners, they must learn how to openly communicate their wants, desires and also their fears and concerns. Its the fears that unlock the greatest potential for the wife to enjoy herself sexually.
     
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  10. samcc2

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    I could use some help getting my wife into this, I have wanted her to fuck black men for years and have told her that recently but she doesn't think she should.
     
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  11. hungteacher

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    @samcc2 you are going about it all wrong...you need to understand your wife before you can ask her to do something like this.
     
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  12. samcc2

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    we've been married 36 years I think I know her well, she thinks she is too old
     
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  13. hungteacher

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    listen samcc2...no offense, but if your wife thinks she is too old - then you dont really know your wife. This happens all the time...I get involved with a cuckold couple and within a week I know some basic desires about the wife that the husband actually doesn't know. I see this so often, im actually turned off by arrogant husbands who whine about wanting to be cuckolded.
     
  14. samcc2

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    I don't want to be a cuckold like you think, I just want to share her with black men , watch, and join in. And I'm not arrogant. I was looking for help not criticism
     
  15. hungteacher

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    @samcc2 I appreciate that you recognize that you dont want to be arrogant. I started this thread to be helpful...but when you start out saying..."i want, i want, i want..." and the answer is that your wife doesnt feel comfortable or sexy about it...that says to me that you really dont understand your wife. It only feels hurtful to you because you know that Im spot on with my assessment. So just take a minute and have a real conversation with your wife...not about her having sex with anyone else...but just having sex with you...find out more about her, why she feels insecure? why she doesnt find sex passionate anymore...and talk to her - i can tell you love your wife dearly, but she needs to know you still love her
     
  16. iwannabecucked

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    I'm very new to this so I have no idea what to expect. I've caught myself watching interracial porn much more than often lately and turns me on so much seeing a bull dominating a cuck and a wife

    I think I would ideally like to watch a mature wife get fucked all over by a big black bull. I would do whatever the wife wants, eat her out, suck her toes, eat her ass, hold her legs as she gets fucked.. whatever.

    I wouldnt even mind cleaning her up after the bull creampies her, then if im lucky, i could jerk off onto her tits

    i look at interracial porn and pics everyday now, not sure whats happening to me but im willing to see where this takes me
     
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  17. hungteacher

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    @ilovecucks great to have you join us - what is your relationship situation right now? are you dating someone, married? or looking?
     
  18. iwannabecucked

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    just posted this in another thread which answers your question so dont think im a bot lol

    "im a 24 year old Caucasian male who has recently been really aroused with cuckold, bbc, interracial porn. Not sure how it started but i love seeing a cuck being dominated by a bull and a wife. im single so i have no way of providing a wife but i would be open to eating out a mature wife and even cleaning up after the bull creampies her"
     
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  19. hungteacher

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    @ilovecucks thats great to have an interest, but you should focus more on learning how to be a good cuckold and you should also spend time on meeting single women to date - dont try and be with married women, they need to be with Bulls, you need to find a single girl who will cherish your submission
     
  20. MichCpl248

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    My wife and I have just role played about it. When I first brought it up (over 9 years ago) I was very nervous and not sure of her reaction. She was open to talk about it and find out what my interest was and hers of course. I could tell she was somewhat reluctant with telling me to much, which I completely understood.

    As we started to get into the role playing part, I would try to make it real as possible...her meeting someone on a business trip or seeing someone we met or knew. I could see it excited her, but at the same time she would hold off some. I brought in toys to add to it..which she liked, but after a while we kind of stopped talking and role playing about it. Life, family, work got really busy and we just stopped doing that for a few years.

    Recently, we got more into it now..she is playing more of the sub role. She always says she can never do it for real, but enjoys the talk and role play and she is more open to talk about guys in front of me. She will see someone she finds attractive and comment about them..which she knows turns me on. So, I am just going slow and having fun finding out what turns her on.