The Cuckold as a Master?

[steve1000]

My slut wife and I have noticed that in the majority of cuckold relationships, the male is submissive to his wife and, in many cases, to the wife's boyfriends, especially when the BF has a BBC. In our relationship, however, my wife considers herself to be my slave, and me to be her master. I arraign all of her sexual encounters; I determine who may fuck her and when.

Normally, I find her men with BBC cocks and, sometimes, white, Latin and other big-cocked men. I do this because I love to watch my slut sucking and being fucked by such men, and because, sometimes, I like to participate (as second fiddle) in the action. I also do this because I cannot satisfy her completely, and because, as a true slut, she loves to be fucked by other men.

Our question is twofold: 1) how many other couples on this internet site have this type of relationship; and 2) are the males in relationships like this true cuckolds?

 

[Ann4BBC]

Ours started like yours, my hubby was in charge at the beginning and suggested who I go with, found guys on sites or bars, took me to Xstasia (BMFC) nights etc. I was happy to just go along with it. However our dynamic changed somewhere along the way. I grew more confident and started doing my own thing and doing the choosing, when and where etc. Hubby has drifted into the more 'traditional' cuck type role.
As far as your second question, I think any husband who's wife goes with other men is classed as a cuckold.

 

[MoFreakin85]

I am not a couple, but a Dominant, orally bi man. I have always arranged, directed and supervised my woman's sexual encounters with BBC. I train them as my "slut", and cock slave and since I absolutely love seeing BBC punish white pussy this is all I expect her to suck and fuck besides myself because it pleases me. I could never be cuckolded in the traditional sense, I am too Dominant and have to be an active participant. I am very much into training white females to be BBC sluts both for her pleasure and mine. Her reward for being a good slut is a hefty dose of BBC.

 

[steve1000]

Ann, thank you for your response and your insight. My wife seems different than you--much more submissive--a real slave. Although she is a practicing Christian, she uses her unyielding love for me as the reason for doing whatever I want her to do, namely fuck other men, especially BBCs. (She also encourages me to beat her when she is bad.) Unlike you, I don't see her becoming dominant because that would destroy her entire justification for being a submissive slut, which she would otherwise see as being immoral.

 

[Ann4BBC]

That's great, you both sound like you're getting pleasure out of the lifestyle so that's the most important thing. Are you both also into BDSM?

 

[xthc2017]

In our relationship, however, my wife considers herself to be my slave, and me to be her master.

That's exactly how our relationship is. My wife refers to it as a "slut trainer / hot wife" situation, which I think is accurate. It might be tangentially related to a cuckold relationship, in that other men are fucking my wife, but without the humilitaion factor.

 

[curious1142]

I’ve heard it referred to as a stag/vixen relationship. The husband loves to see his wife with other men, but he is not submissive and does not want to be humiliated. He also enjoys regular sex with his wife and is not cut off from her.

 

[FreakyCouple89]

My slut wife and I have noticed that in the majority of cuckold relationships, the male is submissive to his wife and, in many cases, to the wife's boyfriends, especially when the BF has a BBC. In our relationship, however, my wife considers herself to be my slave, and me to be her master. I arraign all of her sexual encounters; I determine with whom and when she may be fucked.

Normally, I find her men with BBC cocks and, sometimes, white, Latin and other big-cocked men. I do this because I love to watch my slut sucking and being fucked by such men, and because, sometimes, I like to participate (as second fiddle) in the action. I also do this because I cannot satisfy her completely, and because, as a true slut, she loves to be fucked by other men.

Our question is twofold: 1) how many other couples on this internet site have this type of relationship; and 2) are the males in relationships like this true cuckolds?

CJ (Him): Id say thats alot of what we are right now as a couple. While she is still waiting on her first bbc experience she has had some fun while away on a personal trip without me. She's a very go with the flow kinda girl who loves being submissive. Shes a very flirty personality. Im more of a dom that enjoys that his little sex slave is having fun and great sex because i want that for her. Shes been a good girl being active on this site for master.

As to if your a true cuckhold like that its hard to say. Maybe its just my ignorance but the only thing ive ever known to qualify someone as a cuck is that one partner is not sexually exclusive to the other while the other is exclusive to them. Whether that is the "true" definition i dont really know

 

[steve1000]

I’ve heard it referred to as a stag/vixen relationship. The husband loves to see his wife with other men, but he is not submissive and does not want to be humiliated. He also enjoys regular sex with his wife and is not cut off from her.

That pretty much describes our situation, although if I think about it in a certain way, I can feel a little humiliated when I hear her loud moaning and see on her face how much more my slut wife enjoys a black man's BBC and fucking technique than she does mine. And, actually, thinking about this humiliation turns me on and helps me cum when I am fucking her.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

My slut wife and I have noticed that in the majority of cuckold relationships, the male is submissive to his wife and, in many cases, to the wife's boyfriends, especially when the BF has a BBC. In our relationship, however, my wife considers herself to be my slave, and me to be her master. I arraign all of her sexual encounters; I determine with whom and when she may be fucked.

Normally, I find her men with BBC cocks and, sometimes, white, Latin and other big-cocked men. I do this because I love to watch my slut sucking and being fucked by such men, and because, sometimes, I like to participate (as second fiddle) in the action. I also do this because I cannot satisfy her completely, and because, as a true slut, she loves to be fucked by other men.

Our question is twofold: 1) how many other couples on this internet site have this type of relationship; and 2) are the males in relationships like this true cuckolds?

I've met quite a few masculine ' alpha Cuckold ' couples here in Austin. Alpha males in every sense of the word, but Beta with sex...stand up guys who prefer to see their women satisfied by other men.

Two of them are right here on this site.

 

[lucidcouple]

Dictionary
cuck·old
ˈkəkəld,ˈkəkōld/
noun
archaic
noun: cuckold; plural noun: cuckolds

1. 1.
   the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.

verb
verb: cuckold; 3rd person present: cuckolds; past tense: cuckolded; past participle: cuckolded; gerund or present participle: cuckolding
1.
(of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.

The term has come to mean different things to different people. thanks to the porn industry it has come to represent a submissive male, and is often combined with humiliation of the male.
This is not something we enjoy, not knocking others, but its hard to explain to others who have this in mind.
By the basic meaning of the word my husband is a cuckold, but we don't subscribe to the humiliation or female dominated aspect of it.