I read a lot of posts by so many men who want their wife to go black. Admittedly it is the best thing I ever did; however, in the beginning I was overwhelmed. Going from so-so sex with every white guy (I had a lot of men) to a black man who took me to sexual bliss was intense. I wanted black men constantly. I would wear my Queen of Spades jewelry and go looking and took chances just to get my fix. It got to the point that hubby asked me to stop...I couldn't, I wouldn't. If he insisted I am not sure I would have stayed. Eventually we met a great black man who provided what we both needed, but going from luke warm to being on fire is a huge step. For you wannabe cuckolds, she will need your understanding and support. Just be prepared that it could exceed your fantasy.