Recently, BigBlackBull 76 created a thread aimed at couples, especially Cucks, to help them understand and get involved with Interracial Cuckolding. https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...otwife-to-love-bbc-and-cuckold-a-hubby.40507/ Introduction This thread is created to enhance the techniques and understanding of The Bull in the interracial cuckolding experience. The intended target is the relationship between the Bull and the Wife. The Cuckold will, as it should in this relationship, take a secondary and subservient roll. As a field guide, it will draw on real experiences, survey data and shared thoughts. As with BigBlackBull's thread, it is intended for others to add to the ongoing discussion with real life examples and shared insights. Many areas and topics will overlap with The Dummies Guide on How to Train a Hotwife. This is a good thing. See the relationship from both sides and many facets. Disclaimer: The age old adage--'If you have to ask, then you will probably never understand the answer', applies to those who wonder if they have it in them to become a Bull. If you are born with it, you will know. This is a guide to help develop better techniques. Please add to it. Chapter One: Give Them What She Needs Yes, you read it correctly. Give them what she needs. Your task is to start with her needs first. Discover them, appeal to them, enhance them and, primarily, meet her needs. A survey of 43 couples in the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle revealed that 74% of them chose to explore the lifestyle in order to “spice up” their marriage. Most were married >10 years and had found their intimate lives had fallen into that proverbial rut. That’s why they reached out to you. You’re the rut-breaker. Armed with this knowledge, you should exploit it. They’ve undoubtedly discussed any number of fantasies that revolve around you, the Bull. Talk to them. Pry for those details. Encourage them to be candid. Talk with them together at first. Then, it is important to try and talk with each of them separately if possible, as you will probably get different views and perspectives from each of them when their spouse out of earshot. After you get their ideas and opinions you should begin to incorporate them into your plans. But most importantly, focus on her needs and desires; they are the only ones that really count. You’re in a three-way relationship, all three of you need different things out of it. A smart bull learns what those things are and he delivers. However, never forget that you’re also there to spice things up. That means introducing things that the couple may not have anticipated. Take their ideas and desires, and build on them. Mix them with your own ideas and needs. But most importantly, be different. Be direct. Take charge of the relationship. For some couples, you will have to subtle in your approach to taking charge, others will expect it and anticipate it. Be sure, they have discussed this relationship with each other, set expectations and boundaries. Field Notes: When they're together they make love. When you’re with her, make it all about the sex. Be demanding and assertive. Be forceful with her, pull her hair, slap her ass and pound her roughly. Don’t hesitate to treat her like your slut. Believe it or not, that's exactly what she needs. She has her husband for the vanilla. You are her sexual release. Fulfill that roll and she will submit to your sexual will, deep down, it is encoded in her nature. (I will add my thoughts on when/how to introduce Rough Sex into the relationship in a later post) Field Technique: If she can play alone, have her over to your place and have a friend stop by unannounced. Then force her to suck him off. This is an advanced technique and should not be used in the 'getting to know you' phase. The action of having her sexually please another black man, under your orders and roof, will solidify your position, in her mind, as her sexual master. It will be mind blowing...for her and you. Tie her to your bed and use her until the early hours of the morning, long after she was expected home (ignoring all calls & texts from hubby). After all, she is there pleasing you, all else is of no consequence. -Note the power you are taking in the relationship. One night, when you visit them, walk in their front door, push her to her knees and have her suck you off in front of her husband. Take the attitude that you expect this of both of them. You expect her to obey the command and her husband to silently comply. The first time you try it you will knock them both off their guard in their own home. After you leave, they will chat about it for hours! (she will be wet for days) Take her to a strip club. Order her to buy you a lap dance from the hottest stripper that catches your eye. Insist that she watch, then challenge her to do better when you get home. When you get back to your car, order her to suck you off in the parking lot because you are 'tense'. Take her out for a drink, screw her in the car and drop her off at home dripping wet and used. (I'll bet she asks when she will see you as she exits the car!) Be aggressive. Be spontaneous. Be different. Be what her husband isn’t. They expect that. Note - Did you sense a theme in the Field Notes? It's your job to meet her needs by taking control, ignore the cuckold, and provide her with enhanced physical AND mental sexual experiences.