It is a very pleasurable experience for both she and I to have me engage in dirty talk with her, while I'm using the dildo on her, whether she's using the dildo on herself, or whether I'm making love to her.
I love whispering into her ear, telling her how beautiful she would look with a black man. She coohs and moans so sexy and her pussy juices keep releasing.
I think my wife has had more orgasms at the thoughts, visualizations and dirty whisperings than she has had with just "plain sex" with me.