....Jewbaka (nice name), it helps when you give the forum some background ... your ages, how long married, past experiences involving others in your sexual activities.
....Both my wife & I come from Christian families (her dad a Deacon & my dad a minister) so I can understand where you're coming from, actually. Its because of our respect to our marriage & family that we take every precaution in keeping the experiences strictly a
"fun activity" and not getting into some of the more radical ideas like spouse humiliation, pregnancies, actual dating, etc.
....If this is the very first time the 2 of you have ever done this, since getting married, I'll just say that it WILL change your marriage to some degree. You need to sit down and decide/set the parameters of this before you do it ... use of condoms, whether you're allowed to be present & watch and/or participate, etc. And if this is your first bi-racial experience as well, you really need to know your first 'bull' well and explain to him what your initial expectations are. There are progressive activities you can do first ... like kissing, heavy petting, even ORAL before you jump into the waters of sexual intercourse. Just think it through, go slowly, and communicate your feelings with each other before & after, and be prepared to stop it if either of you have a change of heart.
View attachment 962117