Both my husband and I have gone to swinger clubs together and I have also gone alone many times . Some clubs are definitely better than others and you will usually find some in the bigger cities in the U.S. I have gone and met both single men and couples at swinger clubs and never seem to have any trouble finding someone to play with as long as I find someone attractive and interesting. Usually, I spend a lot of time sitting and socializing with people I meet at the clubs before I go to the back areas of the club to play.Never been to one before. I've been invited to go with a guy I met awhile ago. Meeting him in about a hour there. I hope I'll be a fun experience! I like sex and guys, I hope there is a lot going on there.
Anyone been to one, can give me ideas on what I can expect?
It depends on the club. The club I go to is very nice and upscale, but of course it costs more to attend (at least it does for single men and couples, as women get it very cheap or free. The most successful clubs are usually nice and clean and have a professional staff to ensure they stay that way and that the rules are followed.Are they safe? Are they clean or nice?
Is there a way to find those types of clubs and can you go to just have a ******* at first?It depends on the club. The club I go to is very nice and upscale, but of course it costs more to attend (at least it does for single men and couples, as women get it very cheap or free. The most successful clubs are usually nice and clean and have a professional staff to ensure they stay that way and that the rules are followed.
So how did it go for youNever been to one before. I've been invited to go with a guy I met awhile ago. Meeting him in about a hour there. I hope I'll be a fun experience! I like sex and guys, I hope there is a lot going on there.
Anyone been to one, can give me ideas on what I can expect?
Of course you can find those "types" of clubs lol./ Just google swinger clubs and the town or state you live in to begin the search. Or you can use the link above that MacNfries posted to also search for lifestyle clubs. And lifestyle clubs do not require people to have sex at all. Many people just go to socialize like at regular night clubs. Most clubs have a dance floor, DJ, tables and chairs, and sitting areas or lounges where people just talk and socialize and get to know other people. Many people just go to clubs to meet people socially, to watch other people have sex, to have sex alone with their spouse or date, to be watched by others having sex, or to meet others for sex. Most clubs have both private rooms for sex as well as open lounges and group rooms for people who want to play n a group setting or be watched by others.Is there a way to find those types of clubs and can you go to just have a ******* at first?
Thank youYou can also go to the "Review Swinger/Sex Clubs" forum on this site to read more about specific clubs in specific cities around the country that people have posted.
The main club I go to and the most established club in my area is usually pretty crowded and has a lot going on, but sometimes it can also be slow and not as fun. I think all clubs just have better nights than others, even if they are a popular club. Sometimes it takes a few visits to see if the club is a good place to go.Well, nothing to special about the one I went to. Sorta slow I guess that night. Played around with a few guys but nothing special.