Suggestions for the perfect hotel BBC encounter

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by beachlvr10, Sep 13, 2012.

  1. beachlvr10

    beachlvr10 New Member

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    We will be meeting this guy in a couple of weeks that we met online who just happens to have a BBC, this will be our first time playing with a 3rd. I was hoping for some suggestions from everyone as to the best way to "meet up" for the first time at the hotel. Do we just have him meet us at the hotel room, meet for drinks before going to the room, etc., etc? Any creative ideas for meeting and making this an enjoyable and exciting first time? Thanks for any suggestions.....

    J
     
  2. straightdrop

    straightdrop Active Member

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    MAKE SURE THE HOTEL ROOM IS AT THE END OF THE HALL , MEN LOVE FOR THE ROOM TO SMELL FRESH [ SLIP IN BEFORE HAND AND PUT SMELL BEADS ALL OVER ROOM ] AND DIM THE LIGHTS BEFORE HAND , NEED MORE JUST ASK , HOPE THINGS GO OVER THE ROOF... GOOD-LUCK...;)
     
  3. beachlvr10

    beachlvr10 New Member

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    Cool, but do you suggest having him meet at the room or should u meet before hand over drinks or something?
     
  4. serventruss

    serventruss Member

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    I think that depends on those involved. If you are VERY nervous it might be best to just have him come to the room. If all parties are relaxed and excited for this to be happening, then meeting for a drink and some conversation before you go to the room would probably be best. Get better acquainted, loosen up, enjoy each others company a bit before you go up and enjoy each others bodies. To me, the best idea would have been to ask the man which he preferred and then follow his lead. Good luck and have fun!!!
     
  5. beachlvr10

    beachlvr10 New Member

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    Thanks serventruss
     
  6. straightdrop

    straightdrop Active Member

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    Meeting [ hotel with bar] for drinks will ease the both of you up and you do get a fill for the person [ small talk ] sometimes it even makes the night more heightened for greater sex and play..... if not you can always pull the plug....
     
  7. ChocolateLatte

    ChocolateLatte New Member

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    In our experience, it's best to select a hotel that has a restaurant attached. It's there you can break the ice, get comfortable and make sure everyone is clear on the rules and in a way, it gives you an opportunity to to change your mind if the chemistry just isn't there..
     
  8. Michaelnaples

    Michaelnaples Member

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    Very good suggestion , thank you. But this way a lot of people could understand our plans...
     
  9. ChocolateLatte

    ChocolateLatte New Member

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    Hello how are you... In my own experiences, we never had any issues with the hotel/restaurant situation. The lounge area of hotels here in NYC are fairly crowded with professionals as well as many people simply enjoying great conversation and a drink to take the edge off - so odds are they aren't really focused on you or the gentlemen you are meeting with... At the same time, who's to say the gentlemen isn't merely a friend?..... I understand your concerns though- Anxiety plays a huge part in exploring your desires, that's why it is incredibly important to practice patience...
     
  10. jams

    jams Guest

    i am from negril jamaica
     
  11. jams

    jams Guest

    i go to the couple hotel at time to work
     
  12. my wife for bbc bare

    my wife for bbc bare Active Member Gold Member

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    so how did it go, you get your bbc how was.it