I saw a lady wearing handcuffs as a necklace last week at her place of employment. In comparison to that, this is completely obfuscated in meaning.Help us settle a debate... is this necklace subtle or would it be too obvious? Super sexy to see it worn and to have a “secret” meaning for the two of us. She is scared most people will “know” what it means. She wants to wear it from time to time when going but but wants to be certain it won’t get everyone “talking”.