Subtle Racism.

So basically a slave mentality?
Dont ask me! :D

That implies a former/present relation between owner and slave and I think in a group mentality. I'm not sure how it would workout in the context being discussed here. And here lies the reason this 'feeling' occurs I think.
It holds no relation to persons and is based on feelings that have more to do with history than the white wife/couple looking for a BBC and not a black man....
 
You still dont see saying your hubby sucks and being treated like a whore is a turn on for a lot women/couples after spending more than 5mins on this website...?


I'm just saying date black (white women). And if you feel the urge to be a whore cheat on your white hubby's with black men like you have been doing.
 
I'm just saying date black (white women). And if you feel the urge to be a whore cheat on your white hubby's with black men like you have been doing.
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1. To deceive by trickery; swindle: cheated customers by overcharging them for purchases.
2. To deprive by trickery; defraud: cheated them of their land.
3. To mislead; fool: illusions that cheat the eye.
4. To elude; escape: cheat death.
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When you share a kink with your partner, even if one of them get's called a whore and the other pathetic, there is absolutely no cheating going on.

It's ok people don't appreciate the kink. But I get itchy fingers and tend to reply when the word racism is attributed to the kink without any reason besides non conscious motivations.
 
Dont ask me! :D

That implies a former/present relation between owner and slave and I think in a group mentality. I'm not sure how it would workout in the context being discussed here. And here lies the reason this 'feeling' occurs I think.
It holds no relation to persons and is based on feelings that have more to do with history than the white wife/couple looking for a BBC and not a black man....
There is a difference. BBC object. Black man a person. White couples and white women, do not seek black for his person. only the object between his legs
 
There is a difference. BBC object. Black man a person. White couples and white women, do not seek black for his person. only the object between his legs
Maybe there are people who like to call people a BBC or maybe there are men that like to be called a BBC. Maybe some people are so fucked up they don't see the difference.

But who says these people are BEING racist (since we are all inherently racist by nature as human beings)? As long as all parties involved know what up it's all good.

Also, is anyone paying attention that these people ALREADY HAVE A PARTNER? This is a cuckold niche with a race taboo. Nothing more.

Do swingers look for other couples for their friendship?

The only reason this discussion keep popping up the way it does (without any concrete examples of actual racism) is because of the way race plays a role in the USA.
 
People get so sensitive over racism given the nature of this site and alot of that comes to misunderstanding fantasy and kink. This site is racist from the ground up in many ways, to pretend otherwise just creates cognitive dissonance. If anyone was sincerely interested in bridging racial bridges this place would not be it, this is not a representation of black culture. The very title of this thread is silly in the word 'subtle'. There is nothing subtle about this site, with it's endless porn gifs, fantasy stories, and titilating memories, it's sexy crazy fetish, remember what it is. Ideally people would keep their racism healthy and positive, i.e. racially based desires not hate, but people will lose themselves in fantasy, which can only be a reflection of their current emotional state.

All kinks are intimately bound to fantasy, psychic archetypes, ideas, beliefs, meanings that are loaded with emotional energy which is precisely why people find them so compelling and exciting. The fantasy is based on loose things from reality that you can bring back into your character, like dominance, power, sexual virility, etc etc. You get a variety of it here, from the outlandish black world domination, to the more mild ones, breeding, every white woman craves a black guy, all white men are cucks, or those that just say they prefer black skin and the culture, which usually means the rap or porn industry which is not really a culture. You take leave of your rational faculties for a minute in fantasy, fetish, and get lost in the emotional and fantastical feelings. Sometimes it is fun to just say every black man is superior to white men, it's stronger than just saying everything is a matter of personal opinion blah blah, and this forum leans that way. When that is forgotten as a fantasy, or people forget that is their personal choice to explore that idea, is when weird ******* happens. It would be more fun to talk about real personal fetishes and pleasures, or the merits and negatives of each, rather than just shallowly stating 'my pleasure is better than thou because :p'.

Also for anyone lumping me with the person complaining about stereotypes while I have a dick pick. I understand the positives and negatives of being a moronically stereotypical mandingo, but then I can manoeuvre that to my liking. I like being a mindless ******* sometimes, sub and dom drop to me feels like a pure primal way of feeling that I crave. So I have a dick pick, I can manage that. It's tongue in cheek, it's mandingo, it's playing with the cultural mythos of black sexuality, the dick as virile symbol, and it's just fucking stupid. But it's fun to talk about all of these things. Also with the racist thing, some of us clearly have a fetish for being racist. I personally find it quite cathartic to be racist, especially for my fellow blacks who go around calling themselves ni**** with an endless victim card. I get near as much pleasure being racist to whites as black because of the imbalance of our cultural prejudice these days. But that's on me, I don't go around saying it's objective. Is it literal, am I going to make public policy? NO. Is it emotionally cathartic? Fuck yea.
 
I think the OP is absolutely right. Some people are here because they think of the relationship with the black man as their "dirty little secret" and that's what excites them about it. For example, people who compulsively cheat on their partners do it because they find a sexual excitement in sneaking around and breaking taboos. That excitement multiplies when you have been raised and live in a very white, sheltered, suburban environment. "Oh just think of what my dad would say if he found out." It might be similar to a man who gets turned on by wearing panties under his day clothes. He's doing something he'd be ashamed of if he were caught, and that's why he's excited.

Unfortunately some people are more interested in treating black people like a fetish than they are getting to know someone as a human being.
 
How many black friends... Let's see, do bi racial friends count as a half? Funny how this stereotypical line of a latent white racist character in a sitcom is reversed (some of my best friends are black). Well done!

Sugar coating? You are trying to say I am trying to sugar coat a kink based on racial stereotypes? And who am I trying to sugar coat? The white people. Or the black people? Or is one more racist than the other?

Don't you see you make a problem of the very essence of this kink?

treat people how you would like to be treated.
 
I think the OP is absolutely right. Some people are here because they think of the relationship with the black man as their "dirty little secret" and that's what excites them about it. For example, people who compulsively cheat on their partners do it because they find a sexual excitement in sneaking around and breaking taboos. That excitement multiplies when you have been raised and live in a very white, sheltered, suburban environment. "Oh just think of what my dad would say if he found out." It might be similar to a man who gets turned on by wearing panties under his day clothes. He's doing something he'd be ashamed of if he were caught, and that's why he's excited.

Unfortunately some people are more interested in treating black people like a fetish than they are getting to know someone as a human being.
And that's how some women and couples think here. They are not interested in getting to a black man. Just to have their niche or fetish ....... And taboos filled. Don't just twist things to make political correct.. There is nothing wrong with it.... If men and want to be used, and thought as objects so be it. The same goes for the black only here to have sex with women, breed them, and call them every name in the so be it. They also have the choice not to be used like the village bike and throw away like yesterdays trash. I just try to understand people train of thoughts. It's fine for white guy to watch his wife have sex with ten different black guys in week. But outside of the fantasy you don't want any parts of black people. It's like the pot calling the kettle black. If was always taught, if you lie down with a dog, you get up with flees.... Lol!
 
How many black friends... Let's see, do bi racial friends count as a half? Funny how this stereotypical line of a latent white racist character in a sitcom is reversed (some of my best friends are black). Well done!

Sugar coating? You are trying to say I am trying to sugar coat a kink based on racial stereotypes? And who am I trying to sugar coat? The white people. Or the black people? Or is one more racist than the other?

Don't you see you make a problem of the very essence of this kink?

treat people how you would like to be treated.
Some just don't feel or think that way. They see people as things or personal doormats
 
..... It's like the pot calling the kettle black. If was always taught, if you lie down with a dog, you get up with flees.... Lol!

haha, definitely! If you the posts sound like they were written when someone was playing with themselves then it's a universal warning sign. lol. I'm trying to help a girl I'm seeing meet guys and those are the ones I avoid. lol.
 
Dude it's kink? black male and a white female fucking is just sex.

What makes it a kink is when some little pricked guy ask his wife to fuck black men so he can watch.
 
Dude it's kink? black male and a white female fucking is just sex.

What makes it a kink is when some little pricked guy ask his wife to fuck black men so he can watch.

BUZZER!!!! Wrong!

From one dick pic to another (mine is vastly prettier btw), you cannot be that cognitively dissonant about this forum?
I think you're confusing kink with the kinked up wiring that is your brain sunshine.
 
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People get so sensitive over racism given the nature of this site and alot of that comes to misunderstanding fantasy and kink. This site is racist from the ground up in many ways, to pretend otherwise just creates cognitive dissonance. If anyone was sincerely interested in bridging racial bridges this place would not be it, this is not a representation of black culture. The very title of this thread is silly in the word 'subtle'. There is nothing subtle about this site, with it's endless porn gifs, fantasy stories, and titilating memories, it's sexy crazy fetish, remember what it is. Ideally people would keep their racism healthy and positive, i.e. racially based desires not hate, but people will lose themselves in fantasy, which can only be a reflection of their current emotional state.
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Voodoo, those that know me, know I rarely pass out compliments. I'm just as big of a "drive by" when it comes to the topics of this website as many of the others that frequent it. However, I'd like to compliment you on such a well written post. Every line on subject, to the point ... I enjoyed reading it. Your stock rises with me, and my hat's off to you.
I'll make a point to read your posts more often.
Good job!
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Oh my God, if only I could go the rest of my life and not hear the word "racist" or "racism" I would die with a big fucking smile on my face. It is just so damn worn out. I just don't get it, what the fuck? I don't see how everyone is not fucking tired of hearing about it already.

If a white woman is married and in love with her white husband, maybe they enjoy bringing a BBC in the bedroom for fun. So the fuck what? As long as everyone is fine with the situation then WHO CARES???? If it's not for you then DON'T PARTICIPATE. How difficult is that?? People just want to bitch these days about anything and everything.

If a white woman is single and wants to date black men then that is fantastic. That's great. I think it's beautiful. She is free to live and love and fuck the hell out of her black lover(s) as much as she likes.

Just please don't be calling people out when people are free to make their own decisions and if they want to play as the BBC in a white couples fantasy then they are free to do so. I don't need to understand your life, I don't need to understand your culture, I don't care about any of that bullshit. Just treat each other with respect and manners, that's all that is needed. Un-fucking-believable.
 
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