Still Curious in Here??!?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Dsoul, Jan 29, 2012.

  1. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Are there still couples/hubbies/wives in here who're still hesitant about taking their first step into being cucked by their spouse.

    Is there still a lingering drawback that's holding you down? Share your views, please.
     
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  2. cucky

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    in my opinion its a mistake for the white husband who still hesitant about giving his wife the chance to feel the real pleasures by the real man
     
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  3. blackmeat

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    Good point Dsoul...
     
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  4. blackmeat

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    I like how you think cucky...
     
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  5. cucky

    cucky Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    thanks blackmeat , its :happy: My point of view
     
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  6. blackmeat

    blackmeat Administrator; Where a woman cums FIRST! Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    And I am particularly GREATFUL!
     
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  7. rocuck

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    Dsoul.

    Thank you for asking this all important question. My wife and I were in a stalemate earlier this year but she was able to break through the last bit of resistance and my fantasy of being cuckolded has been made real. I know your question is for people who have not made the last step but maybe a quick version of our story will be of some interest.

    My wife did not marry me for sex. I am tiny and not able to perform well. She was mature enough to talk to me about it but the conclusion was obvious. She was all woman and I was something less than a man. We started watching porn and masturbating in place of sex. She actually enjoyed the porn which I think may be unusual for a woman. We both favored interracial porn with black man/white woman. After a few months this was all we watched. One night we had a serious talk about it. The inhibitions were down from some wine. I blurted out that I was just in awe of the black men and I questioned why a woman would ever want a white guy. She kind of stared at me and asked me "And what about the women?" I then told her that I held the women in awe as well. I said I just saw the black and white contrast as natural. My wife then mentioned that most of the women were probably married to white guys and did I think that was wrong? I told her that I bet the white guys wanted it to happen and knew they could not compete and probably wanted what was best for the wife anyways. I said that most of the black men would just take the woman if they wanted to and the white guy would step aside. I said that I thought they might actually prefer the married woman because it was like putting the white man in his place.She just nodded.

    Nothing more was said and we seemed to go out of our way to not talk about this topic. One night we were watching a film and she said in a very quiet voice that she was only attracted to black men. It was just that simple. I was surprised but at this point we had both kind of realized this anyways and I just said to her that I understood that and felt that it was biological. She asked what did I mean and I told her that I had read that some people think there are hormones or chemicals or something that trigger a desire for women to be with alpha males and to not be with beta guys. And I told her that some people think that alpha male equals black male. At least most of the time. She told me that she did not know if all of that was true but that she felt differently around black men. At this point I had my moment and I told her that I would be ok with it if she wanted to start dating and seeing other men. I had had no idea that I would say that. Her response was that she appreciated that but that she did not want our marriage to end. I told her that it would not end but that it would be improved. She then said that she was greedy and that if something like that ever happened that I would not be allowed to be with other women. She aid to me "That is a deal killer, isn't it?" I then said absolutely not. I told her that I couldn't perform anyways at an acceptable level. Nothing more was said.

    Earlier this year I joined this site and wrote some stories. These helped our fantasy life and we discussed some of the issues that I had brought up in the stories. We were able to have some discussions about what we both wanted, and it seemed to be the same thing. She wanted a sex life and was attracted to black men. I felt some need to submit and to be cuckolded. I respected the black men much more than the white. She worried that she might not know how to dress or to act and worried about her ability to attract a guy. I told her that this was ridiculous. She is on the thin side but blonde and gorgeous. She also worried that if she was with a better man than me that she would not want to stop. She also asked me if she actually did something could I accept a permanence about it? Could I accept her decisions about who she saw and who she slept with? I told her that I wanted her to do what she wanted to do and that I would be thrilled to accept whatever came my way. Even if that meant that she would be having a great sex life and I would be in total chastity. I told her that I thought this was all happening because of the biology thing and she sort of agreed.

    Well, in the fall she went to a sports bar with a girl friend of hers. At that point she had a clear go ahead from me but neither of us knew if anything would EVER happen. It was her concern for me that held her back despite me asking her to be greedy. I almost begged her to cuckold me. She ended up watching football with a table of black guys. She met one guy and he ended up calling her on the phone. They ended up going out and had sex. The night she went out was one of the most difficult as well as the most exciting for me. I helped her get dressed and it was just like the cuckold stories. Except she was so worried about how she would look and if he would like her and so forth. But when she got home she was changed. She had been right about that part of it. Her concern for me had vanished. She was now focused on the new guy. She did not tell me details for awhile but eventually they came out. He was better that me. Way better. I will spare the details but she said that it was not just a size thing. It was man thing. He made her feel like a woman. At that moment I knew that I had been cuckolded.

    Since that night our marriage has changed. It is now a more normal marriage if you want to call it that. I say that because my wife now has a very active sex life. It is just not with me. I still masturbate in a form of tribute to black men and am coming to accept this. I must be tiny for a reason. An extra thing that I did not expect was that I am much more submissive around the house now and do most of the housework. My wife told me the other night that she should have made this move a couple of years ago. It may seem like a one way relationship to some but it just seems right to us.

    So to get back to your question. I think the thing that held us back for so long was my wife's unreasonable concern about my feelings. What we now know is that her concerns should have been about her desires and about all of the black men out there who would like a shot at her. Swingers are one thing but a cuckold needs the chastity. He needs the pain. And if his wife can figure that out she can move forward with what she wants to do.

    Sorry Dsoul if this was too long but I thought it might help.
     
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  8. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    No problem, rocuck. It's good yours went down quite easy for you. For some hubbies out there, it's more like crossing through a minefield trying to let their wives in on this.
     
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  9. rocuck

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    Thanks Dsoul.
    I was worried that I had gone on too much. I think that inappropriate concern for the white cuckold by the woman may be the main thing holding most couples back. It was for us. On the positive side, once she has been with a superior man it is like desire is turned on and guilt turned off. So I think it helps if the cuckold can be a little more on the extreme side of things and convince his wife that he needs to be denied sex. Some of the white boys may not like to hear that or agree with me but I bet the black men on this site understand the need to put the white boy down some in order to be able to have a good relationship with the white woman. At least this is what I think.
     
  10. cucky

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    thanks again sincerly its a honor to have a bbc oursexual life
     
  11. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I do make some sort of declarating that the hubby/BF has to be the one to convince his woman about what he desires in this type of relationship both for him as well for her, and maybe for added emphasis, should later introduce the Black Bull to her so they get to know each other and see about pushing hubby halfway out of the picture....

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