Wear a belt the next you have sex. When you take of your pants (or she does), take the belt from it and get creative. It's a great way to be very softly touching her, just slightly gracing her skin to hitting her harder and harder. Gage reaction to not go to far. Ideally discus a stop word.Interested to hear from "experts in the field" when it comes to spanking that ass during sex. Did it for the first time this afternoon and it was awesome. Wife's reaction to it was a huge turn on...she put out a passionate "yes!" each and every time I slapped it. I also grabbed a hand full of hair and pulled much more aggressive than usual...she loved that too. It all worked together.
Let me hear it...I'm a novice at best and want to take it to the next level!