Something Important To Say

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by FattyPatty, Mar 29, 2015.

  1. FattyPatty

    FattyPatty Well-Known Member

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    Ok everyone I'm going to address a few things here.

    First:
    Guys, I'm probably not going to meet you. I'm especially not going to drop everything, call out of work, travel several states away, and have sex with you based on a few messages on here. It's nothing against you personally, I'm just not on here for the sole purpose of hooking up. I can do that myself in my own town.

    Second:
    I don't sit in front of a screen with bated breath just waiting for your next message to come in so I can respond to it. I have a life outside of this site. I may go for a couple days without even logging on to the site. It doesn't mean I'm not going to respond, it means I'm not going to respond right at the very second your message hits my inbox.

    Third:
    The fact that I a) don't respond right away b) won't give you my phone number c) won't tell you my full name...does not make me a fake, tease, man, dude, guy, etc. What all of that does meanis that we don't know each other and I'm not in the habit of giving personal information. And don't confuse "personal information" with the stories and discussions I do have on here about my sex life. I can post on here about all the dick I sucked or pussy I licked that I want, and not have to worry about some psycho from the Internet tracking me down.

    Fourth:
    I'm pansexual. Basically my sexuality is very fluid. I can be sexually and romantically attracted to people of every race, sexual orientation, sexual identity, and gender. I DON'T always want a big dick in me, nor do I always want a pussy in my face. I'm in this forum because I enjoy the topics of discussion, the stories, the pics, and even a few of the people.

    I know that's long winded and I'm sorry. But if I haven't covered something that you're curious about or you want to say hi, please don't feel that I don't want ANY messages, just don't come at me with stuff like, "Where do you live so I can fuck you?"

    ::sigh:: rant over
     
  2. Nerdycuckbrian

    Nerdycuckbrian New Member

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    I agree completly! My wife and I have lives outside this site and we're on here to explore new horizons.

    Right now my wife is content on picking up guys herself around our area but is open to meeting guys in other areas for when we're traveling.
     
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  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Patty, you do realize THAT is going to break a lot of hearts, right? I mean, like, "what a downer!"
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  4. Doctor Don

    Doctor Don Well-Known Member

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    I'm glad to hear someone finally say it. I'm getting tired of seeing the threads about fakes. Of course there are fakes on here because its the internet but it doesn't mean a person is fake if they don't want to fuck you. Bravo FattyPatty, i'm just glad to see someone say it.
     
  5. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Well said Fattypatty. I love this site and love talking to everyone on here. When anyone messages me i always try to reply, im always polite and friendly, i give them as much info as i safely can, tell them some sexy, saucy stuff and even send them personalised pics at times. I never lead anybody on.
    Then i get a guy says he wants to talk to me straight away on messenger or something, i politely decline because im not good face to face etc or i dont want to, and i get the reply 'mmm...i see' clearly thinking im fake just because i havent immediately jumped on messenger!
    Enjoy the site for what it is, exciting and sexy black on white fun! X
     
  6. danni miller

    danni miller Active Member

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    ....what Patty said...
     
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  7. biwhitesub

    biwhitesub Member

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    Haha, you'd think that was a given, it's funny how some people never learn. My account on a more mainstream dating page get guys sending me messages from places like Belfast, Cairo, the West coast... it's incredible. It really is.
     
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  8. lina

    lina Active Member

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    Nice written :) u go girl!
     
  9. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you for an excellent, well-written post from the point of view of a real woman with common sense and her head screwed on tight.
     
  10. dudesimon78

    dudesimon78 Well-Known Member

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    Well said, The likelyhood, of meeting up with someone on here is for the most part virtually 0%, I enjoy the content and playing out my sexual fantasies here, as it's not happening for real, if that changes, then you guys will see me less, does this make me fake? Some will say yes, but without a "real" outlet. Then I'm here.

    Anyways, I'm just saying I am with fattypatty on this.
     
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  11. xpatblack

    xpatblack Active Member

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    Love it
     
  12. OldSchoolPlayer25

    OldSchoolPlayer25 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Well done...you put a dose of reality on the site, the one's who don't get it or are pissed, will be essentially the fantasizers, and delusional types who think all the women here are pathetic and wanting sex 24/7 from Beta Beta Chi...you continue contributing, you write well and in a very literate voice...keep it up...OSP
     
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  13. FattyPatty

    FattyPatty Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for the support! I was kind of worried that there would be a backlash, but I felt I needed to say it.

    I enjoy coming on here because I am a very sexual person, I was tired of almost feeling like I wanted to avoid the forums just so I wouldn't have to deal with a certain amount of BS. I'm sure the BS is still going to pile up in my inbox, but at least my views are in the open.

    And if someone doesn't like it, they can kiss my... image.jpg
     
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  14. xpatblack

    xpatblack Active Member

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    Nice ass
     
  15. YummyKimi

    YummyKimi Active Member

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    Amen! I totally agree. :)
     
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  16. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I do like, and wouldn't mind kissing it anyway. :cool:
     
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  17. sex cock54

    sex cock54 New Member

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    Hi i need a women
     
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  18. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    You must've been one of those who kept PMing her, expecting an immediate reply.
     
  19. qbrishc

    qbrishc Active Member

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    I agree with Kuno.
    I like what you said and how you said it. I also agree with Kuno in that I would still love to kiss your ass. You are beautiful and I really like that you stand up for your self and opinion.
    Well Done !!
     
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  20. jennyluv

    jennyluv Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    you took the words right out of my mouth !!:)