so, last fall, I come across a team of black men painting a house in the course of my work. exchange normal pleasantries. start talking..guy I'm talking to has a caribbean accent. Ask where he's from. Jamaica. out of the blue he's telling me it's full of white guys wanting the black men to fuck their wives. Says that's all they got there. Man, is it just me?..Wondering how this guy so quickly got down to brass tacks out of nowhere and was able to discern that it was MY common interest. a few too much company, or I might have asked him home to meet the Mrs.. Think it's THAT obvious