I use the N word rather frequently, maybe too much. I think it makes the whole thing, the thought of white women screwing black men that much hotter, kinkier, and forbidden. But I guess it can get over used. Reduces the effect. I noticed when I posted something with the N word, it was changed to black man. Also sometimes use Nergo. I can cut back or just not use it if it's a problem, just remember where I'm coming from, not wanting to offend, just dirty sex talk. I don't even use it in regular conversation.