What the hell is wrong with you guys. You shouldn't be using your cock for sex or for making love to your wife, you should be using your BRAIN. The biggest sex organ is the brain guys. We been in the lifestyle on and off for about 25 yrs now, and we love it. I'm about 5.5 in in a good day, but that does not stop me from pleaduring my lovely wife or other women. Guys with anything bigger than 8 in are also at a disadvantage, they are at the other extreme. There's not a lot of women that can take a large cock in their vagina or their ass. You guys can even have an awesome sex night with out even penetrating her, just think how 2 lesbian ladies can have sex without penetration. When we play with single guys it's been with black males not because their big cocks but she found that they are more in tune with giving pleasure, able to have a conversation and willing to work with her. I usually pick the guys, for their looks and big cocks for the only reason that i can take awesome photos or video for our own pleasure. I usually pick big guys, in body size and cock size for that reason, and she goes a long with it because we have awesome sex or make love for hrs, days weeks by just working our brains into it, and we both get very explosive orgasms. All the single guys she has been with have been on the big boy club, she has never been able to cum when the guy is inside her. About 2 weeks ago I contacted this nice black gentlemen with only 1.5 incges bigger than me, I texted the guy intructions on how to have fun with her and that gas been the only guy that in all this time was able to make her achieved an orgasm other than me. She was so fricking excited that they had sex again after taking a break. That was a first also. With big guys she can only doit once. So work on it guys is not a big the fushing pole is, is how you wiggle the worm. Not saying that some women can accommodate a big cock, but the majority are not able to handle big guys.