tnpantyguy, I don't think you want a woman at all, but wish to be a "bitch" to men, black men particularly. Women aren't looking for wimps ... enough of those around without the high heel, panties, and stockings. They're looking for real men that can service their sexual needs. Its because of sissy wimps that they LOOK for other men. So, I don't think you'll find what you want HERE.
If you'll admit your homosexuality, and that "servicing men" is what you truly desire, you'll probably come closer in getting what you want. Possibly look for some male Dom/Sub groups ... I think you'll get your wish then. Bunches of Dom/Sub groups around ... try the tumblr groups.
Nice pics, by the way! This attachment is just for YOU, dude!