Cuckolding has no "racial" boundaries, MC. And it doesn't require the woman "degrading" her husband. Simply put, cuckold means "man whose wife is unfaithful". Look it up.
The definition you've given is your OWN definition ... the way YOU see it.
Also, contrary to the limited world you may live in, not ALL or even MOST white women are with black men. You're not seeing the forest because of the trees ... there's a whole big world out there.
My WiFi works again... I am happy. I may or may not be gone for a few days so I want to answer this:
First, nice post.
I think many people have over looked the other terms in this whole open marriage/cuck/swinger matter: Wittol.
To recap what MacNfries rightly said:
Cuckold:
noun
1.
the husband of an unfaithful wife.
verb (used with object)
2.
to make a cuckold of (a husband).
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/cuckold
Now...
Wittol
noun Archaic. a man who knows of and tolerates his wife's infidelity
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/wittol
Let me refresh that last part with emphasis-
A man who knows of and tolerates his wife's infidelity...
A man who knows of and tolerates his wife's infidelity
That last term also means a man who knows of and CONDONES his wife's cheating.He does not feel bad from it nor made to be sad or shamed, he is open and likes it. There is no need for humiliation there in the wife fucking other men.
For such a great insight, cut the bullshit and read
Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them by David Ley
ISBN-10: 1442200308
Get it on Amazon.com and read the reviews there.That is Hotwifing explained!
A lot of guys, or girls, seem to like the so called humiliation aspect of the 'cuck' set up. I am not married but have been in relationships before. All have been open ones since I like to screw many women and I like to see my gals fuck other men and to see then get with women too...
If you like to be humiliated as part of group sex, seeing you gal with another man or swinging or being a wittol... That is
apart from the wittol aspect proper.
Want proof? There are some men, small dicked or not, who like to get off on the humiliation aspect of sex. There are S&M fans and such. Many of these men are SINGLE and the cuck aspect can't be active since they DON'T HAVE A STEADY PARTNER TO FILL THE ROLE OF WIFE/GF WITH! Yet they still like to be humiliated and get a thrill from that.
There are well endowed black men who like to be made submissive and humiliated.
http://mywhite-mistress.tumblr.com/
That blog is off line but that was from a hung black guy who was into role play and submission TO his white key keeper dom lady.Some black couples like having a boss white stud fuck the wife and some black men feel humiliated and turned on and some just like the sex. No rules nor guess on standards in the swinging lifestyle.
The point is... Don't automatically link up cuck= wimp or sissy who likes to get humiliated. The term wittol fits better to most men who like to see their woman banged by other men, swinger also fits, if you need a label at all.
Some cucks like to be humiliated. Some don't. Stop assuming about others sex lives and what drives one or another to enjoy the sexual practices he or she does.
Power play can be fun... It does link into other aspects of relationships. Still, don't assume there is a 1:1 fitting of one sort of sexual romp into another fetish.
Sort of like blindly saying all cucks or all white men who love IR want to or do suck black cock. I am not deriding gays or bi men. I am just saying avoid thinking ALL white men want that. Also, don't think all black men want a man to suck their cock either!
So too with needing to be put down or to be belittled during sex. I have have swinging session where I was the biggest dick and ones where my cock was not the biggest. I NEVER felt that I was humiliated if I was smaller nor did I feel automatically I was boss and alpha just because I was bigger.
On some men who I 'cucked' and humiliated (their wives cucked them technically) on some swinger scenes it was due to their feeling that way on their OWN in their beings and not that I explicit set out to cow them. They liked it, before I got there they were getting off on the
idea of it, and they went in for it on their own merit. In other cases- for me to try and bully the "cuck" or humiliate him would have ruined the scene and pissed off the wife!
People have the view sex is a win or lose game. Like one has to be owned or humiliated and another wins or is gaining something from it, other then fun. That makes sex - to me- more work and less enjoyment.
To each his own however. Just don't apply your own to that of another and think one size fits all.