Setting the wife up

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  1. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

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    I have read some stories on here about setting the wife up to get their first black dick. I know stories are stories but I was wondering if anyone has tried to do this and if so did it work? My thought is to invite a black friend over for some drinks and then "leave" the friend and my wifey for a beer run. Any one have any thoughts on it?
     
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  2. derin jones

    derin jones Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I posted in the Cuckold forum about how my first time went down. It was on the spur of the moment, though my gf at the time had two previous black boyfriends.

    https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/ex-gf-started-my-interracial-obsession.74811/

    My wife now has not done any swinging, yet. She is highly intrigued and wants to, and I'm in the process of setting her up with her first. I recently was going to set her up with a friend of mine to be her first BBC and potential regular is she wanted (he was certainly fine fucking her often if he could), and that came real close one time and might in the very near future. Some of things I'm setting up involve....

    - getting them to spend more time together and me. friendly thing
    - taking a "call" or two here or there, restroom breaks, after sexy talks to allow that to carry on more
    - drinking helps loosen inhibitions
    - letting him know that i'm setting things up, and discussing ideas to make it happen
    - watching more IR porn with her
    - while fucking her, get rougher and tell her i'm gonna let him fuck her, do certain things to her, i'll tie her up and let him fuck her, etc

    Certainly progressing, so.... we'll see. Also, there's no lack of hot black bulls with huge cocks on there that I talk to and get offers from as potential bulls to fuck my girl, so this forum is gold for that.

    There's also a great guide that you need to read that's already posted by the admins here.
    https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...otwife-to-love-bbc-and-cuckold-a-hubby.40507/
     
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  3. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I would strongly suggest that you make damn sure your wife in on board with your desires. Otherwise you might need a good lawyer.

    A number of years back I was invited to fuck an acquaintances wife. He assured me that she was hot for black cock, just a little shy. I get to the house and after a little small talk I initiate some mild contact. She goes ballistic, starts screaming about her husband setting her up to get raped by a n-----r, threatening to call the cops. I got to Hell out of there as fast as I could. The couple ended up divorcing

    Assume you set her up and things go sideways. How do you think the judge will react if she says you set her up to get raped by a black man? You would be lucky to get out of court with the shirt on your back. Nothing can be more vindictive than a woman that feels she has been abused and has a chance at revenge. And I don't blame them in the least.

    You batter be damn sure she is on the same page as you or life could get real unpleasant and expensive.
     
  4. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

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    We have done some race role play in the bedroom along with IR porn and bought and used a 7inch doc johnson black dildo on her.

    I know it is something that she is into and not trying to push her into a bad situation. Definitely going at her pace with it which is the speed of pond water but giving her the opportunity in a comfortable environment.

    I would really like to meet the gentleman first and see we could actually become friends that way I can see how is like as a person and can understand our situation. Plus I am into using people and find it degrading to use someone for their dick for a fantasy. They make dildos for that.
     
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  5. Hotlilwife4xxl

    Hotlilwife4xxl Active Member Real Person

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    LMAO OMG.. That is so messed up, but kinda funny lol
     
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  6. rock

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    When I set Phyliss up with the date on her 50th birthday, I told the guy that it was a date. I said anything after that she will have to agree to. She was surprised but she went along because she trusted me enough to know I wasn't going to put her in harms way so to speak. They hit it off and she decided to spend the night at his apartment getting her brains fucked out. That was ok but if they had just gone out and had dinner and done a little dancing before he returned her back to the motel without having sex that would have been ok too. You have to know where things are in your relationship before you do something like this. I have always said that most any woman will go for the deal if everything is right, its just a hormone thing.

    Rock
     
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  7. Astounded

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    Why do you have to "set things up"? She's going to attract a stud to herself much better than you can.

    Be nice when she tells you about her sexy moments without you. The one thing that helps about you "being there" is scaring off the pencil dicks from hitting on her. My wife told me after a recent Girls Night Out, how it bothered her dancing with a man and not knowing if he had a big cock or not. She said it drove her crazy thinking she might be wasting her time.

    Be prepared for the "Fickleness", her Prerogative - one night I hear her describe in detail the shape and massive size of the package in a man's shorts when he popped out of the dressing room at her clothing store; then 2 nights ago, after her sexy blond girlfriend takes her to a fancy rooftop nightclub, she complains about the gross-tasting cocktails that a man bought for them.

    Just let her enjoy being sexy
     
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  8. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    It wasn't very funny at the time. Since then there is no way in Hell I would consider fucking a woman without knowing that she was in favor of it up front. It is the main reasons I have stuck with the group. All the women are there for one reason, they are all more or less sane, and they are all quite willing to indulge in a lustful encounter
     
  9. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Do you think your acquaintance had even told his wife the real reason for your visit prior to the visit?
     
  10. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Very true, if a woman wants a particular man she can her desires known. The fickleness is very true. What a woman wants or expects can change vastly and in a short period of time. None of the women in the group include their husbands and there is a good deal of activity going on. Be supportive and if she feels the need be close by in case an encounter goes bad. Otherwise let her be a woman you will likely be well rewarded
     
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  11. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I am reasonably certain she has no idea why I was there. When I arrived she was pleasant and polite but was not real comfortable with my presence. When I was sitting next to her she seemed uncomfortable. Her husbands expression indicated to me that I should initiate some contact. I brushed my hand across her leg and you would have thought I threw acid on her. She went totally ballistic, I am sure the contact was totally unexpected
     
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  12. Astounded

    Astounded Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    But then, she doesn't need you to be her wise big brother - One time I hurt her feelings with my astute statement: "...if you weren't there last night, those guys would have hit on someone else..."
     
  13. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    One important rule to getting along with the female gender. NEVER EVER compare her to another woman unless it is to tell her that she is the best woman you have ever known. If you do that may have to promptly come up with reasons why she is the best woman you have ever known so tread cautiously
     
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  14. bobnjill

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    The first time my wife experienced another man was completely by accident. We we living in orange county Calif and it was mother's day in 2001. I seen an ad in one of the coupon style inverts that was advertising a facial, spa treatment, and 30 massage for 120.00 at a spa in studio city.

    As we arrived, the owner was trying to unload a large tube tv from a pickup by his self. I gave him a hand unloading and introduced him to my wife and mentioned the ad I had. He thanked me and when it was time for her to go back to get her treatment, he told one of the ladies he would take care of my wife and told me I could wait in the lobby or come back in an hour and a have. I chose to go get coffee and return in an hour or so... Finally after 3 hours she came out looking exhausted and guilty. She waited until we were in bed before she told me what happened and sex was wild that night. I now knew that she was opened to being seduced. We talked about her playing during sex and trying a black man and sex would be insane especially when watching ir.

    Since then we moved to Colorado and was going Denver to watch a broncos game.

    Since the wife said it was just a fantasy that she would never act on, I decided to really test the waters.

    Met a BBC on aff that seemed the perfect fit. I told him about my wife her fantasy and the fact she would never go through with it. He told me that he could seduce her and she would not ever know we set this up. I said sure why not. We made arrangements to be at a brewery just south of denver Saturday night, the night before the broncos game. There was a college football game playing and he managed to get a table next to us, him and I talked about the game, and he would through out small complements to her and I was a lucky man. Soon all of his attention was on her. I got up to go to the restroom and when I returned she whispered to me that he was flirting with her and wanted to know if her and I should leave, I said no, might as well have fun. She agreed. After several more beers, he came back to the room with us. I fell asleep and the were going at, I woke up several hours later and the were still going at it. We went back up to Denver 8 or 9 more times for them to hook up after that and one she went to Denver and spent the night with home. He moved to Arizona and we all still talk but have not connected since about 2012
     
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  15. bobnjill

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    So seduction in a public place with no pressure on the wife might help, but need a willing BBC.
     
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  16. Whtsub4bbc

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    At times see seems scared of her own shadow. I have been slowly trying to brake her out of her shell. Compliments that are true in my eyes along with dressing up in lingerie. Then came the porn and toys and stuff like that. I know guys look at her but she is still not comfortable with and in her body.
     
  17. rock

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    When I said I set Phyliss up, that was exactly what I did. I knew she was looking at interracial porn on the internet, I knew she had an account in Dark Cavern(this was back when Dark Cavern just started. 1996) She didn't know that I knew any of this. I knew she was interested so I gave her a little push to get her started, to let her know I was ok with her having a black lover. From then on I only picked a couple of guys for her to go out with. She picked out the guys or the black guys would pick her out as available. Still to this day even though she has slept with well over 100 black guys I am still the only white man she has had sex with.
    rock
     
  18. PageantMom

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    Never mind a good lawyer - you might need a good plastic surgeon, bone-setter and surgeon too.
    And never mind "unpleasant and expensive" - it can be painful too.
     
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  19. TopCat

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    Very true and I've seen many like scenarios. And, you don't want to push her into the IR lifestyle no matter how good you want it for yourself...nothing good comes of it. Both should be on the same page, and perhaps agree to the same terms. I know a White guy who done just that and he regrets it to this day. His wife is now at a point of no return. She has not touched him sexually ever since and he's not allow to see her together with lovers but I think he's losing out on the benefit of being a cuck. I think she is kind of doing a revenge scenario on him. I'm surprised they're still together. It's a lot more details to this true story but I gave you the abridged version.
     
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  20. Seth1805

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    We are at that crossroads and the funny thing is she actually knows the man she wants. The last hurdle we are facing is setting up a "date" of some kind to ask him if he would be interested. (My wife worked with this guy for years and from the way she talks this is apparently a formality, she says she knows he wants her)
    I do believe she wants me to come up with a way to reintroduce herself to him, they have not talked in a couple of years but his Facebook is current and he lives near by and works at another casino. So far I am thinking of asking her if she feels comfortable with sending him a Facebook IM to ask him how he is doing and to tell him she has been thinking about him " a lot" lately.
    I do believe a random text from her like that would start things moving in the right direction although it would entail her having an "online affair" which I never anticipated but would have to cope with.
    My only other idea is for us to plan to "accidentally" run into him at his work, he's casino security, and when she sees him have her give him an embrace he can't forget, fawn over him and by that I mean she talks compliments the attributes she tells me so much about when she describes him, then finally "we" insist we meet for drinks. Once we meet for drinks we will play it by ear, if she can covertly find a way to sit by him then I am sure she will take matters into her own hands, however if that is not possible I'd hope I can see he is interested and I can at some point speak on my wife's behalf and tell him my wife is attracted to him and would like to watch him sleep with her.
    Your thoughts?