Interesting point you make Dsoul. There is another post on here with a slightly different question with regards to which would attract the most hits so to speak and consensus is that avatar’s displaying one’s cock wins always.
On the question of love and relationship, I just can’t see myself purely on the fact I want to be able to do things which under normal circumstances will be considered a taboo, some will even be vilified. Sites like this create the opportunity for that to happen, to express ones inner thoughts when it comes to sex,
The key thing for me is how you engage on an emotional level afterwards and is that likely to happen?