I don't know where to find legitimate BBC cuckold advice. Tried other forms of social media but not great advice. My gf is 20 and never had bbc.. never had more than 5 or 6" and I am trying to get her to be a "snowbunny" and cuckold me with a bbc. She's scared of the stigma if someone found out mostly. Her family is pretty conservative. And she's also scared of the size and how it'll effect our relationship. Any advice on how to ease her into the lifestyle would be greatly appreciated. BBC bulls or couples advice. Maybe a women's advice would sway her more but we'll see. Thanks
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Your post & problem isn't unusual at all, and in your case, tyler, probably requires several issues be resolved.
..... So, lets get her to open up a bit with her sexual fantasies ... the really deep, secret fantasies; the ones she masturbates to when she's all alone. Women tend to keep their guards up to us devious men ... knowing we'll try taking advantage of them when they become vunerable, thus its hard as hell to get them to give you a straight answer to almost anything in that state of mind. I suggest alcohol ... usually their weakness. When I use to want a straight answer from my wife I'd mix up a batch of margaritas, and after 2 or 3, we'd unfortunately run out of mixer (my plan) and start doing shooters with salt & a lime. I could extract ANYTHING out of my wife by 2-3 of those. Once you know her secret sexual fantasies, that's a big door to open up your relationship ... you make her fantasy come true ... then she'll make YOUR fantasy come true. Watching some good amateur videos of wives with other men while their husbands watch & masturbate are good to reassure her that this is a normal activity for couples in an otherwise monogamous relationship. YouTube has some good cuckold videos ... you might wish to check those out.
.... One bit of concern ... if routine sex with her is boring or becoming boring for you, it probably is for her as well ... taking this direction might not be the best "first" approach ... it might be better to look at your sexual relationship (overall) and see if you can change it up a bit ... using larger, black dildos & vibrators, cock sleeves, introduce her to snowballing ... they love that, and other things FIRST.
Good luck ...
#1: The 2 of you aren't married and many ladies, at her age, are starting to think about permanent partnerships down the road. Until she takes you off that list of "eligibility", she may be avoiding anything that might screw up the relationship.
#2: Do you know what HER sexual fantasies are? We know what yours is, no doubt, but you're asking her to make moral concessions that her parents helped install in her.
#3: You're taking too giant of a step ... wanting her to not only agree to screw other men, but wanting her to screw a black man, and wanting to see her take a much bigger cock than your 5-6 incher .... and she has reservations on all of this, particularly IF you've never shared her with another man.
#4: Men are notorious for "thinking" they know what they want. Unfortunately, men desire instant gratification. My wife often says that men have 2 heads but only one brain, and when their dicks get hard, the brain relocates to the dick, leaving us dumb as a bunch of rocks. Women do seem to think situations out a bit further thus usually become the most logical thinkers of the genders.
#5: Per chance, are you bi-sexual, tyler. Or, maybe you just want the chance to be near a black cock out of curiosity. Right or Wrong?
..... So, lets get her to open up a bit with her sexual fantasies ... the really deep, secret fantasies; the ones she masturbates to when she's all alone. Women tend to keep their guards up to us devious men ... knowing we'll try taking advantage of them when they become vunerable, thus its hard as hell to get them to give you a straight answer to almost anything in that state of mind. I suggest alcohol ... usually their weakness. When I use to want a straight answer from my wife I'd mix up a batch of margaritas, and after 2 or 3, we'd unfortunately run out of mixer (my plan) and start doing shooters with salt & a lime. I could extract ANYTHING out of my wife by 2-3 of those. Once you know her secret sexual fantasies, that's a big door to open up your relationship ... you make her fantasy come true ... then she'll make YOUR fantasy come true. Watching some good amateur videos of wives with other men while their husbands watch & masturbate are good to reassure her that this is a normal activity for couples in an otherwise monogamous relationship. YouTube has some good cuckold videos ... you might wish to check those out.
.... One bit of concern ... if routine sex with her is boring or becoming boring for you, it probably is for her as well ... taking this direction might not be the best "first" approach ... it might be better to look at your sexual relationship (overall) and see if you can change it up a bit ... using larger, black dildos & vibrators, cock sleeves, introduce her to snowballing ... they love that, and other things FIRST.
Good luck ...
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Like @MacNfries said, you need to find out what her fantasies are. You also need to back off for a bit. Your girlfriend is young. She is more than likely just now really learning what turns her on and how to please herself. This isn't something girls are ever encouraged to do. It is important to always make sure that your girlfriend knows you love her and find her attractive and desirable. She may feel that you aren't satisfied with her. This is something you want to avoid at all costs.
It is important though to take a step back and think with your brain and not the head of your dick. I also recommend that you encourage her to talk about her fantasies and to encourage her to watch porn. If she is having a moral dilemma with this, you will need to give her time to wrap her mind around this. It isn't something a girl can just toss to the side and jump into the deep end. It takes time and takes handling anything about sex with kid gloves.
In order for a woman to open up about her fantasies she needs to be able to trust you and to count on you not to make fun of her and ridicule her sh. She will not open up if pushed, especially with her upbringing. It takes a man to step back and think about and get to know his girl's needs and then cater to them.
It is important though to take a step back and think with your brain and not the head of your dick. I also recommend that you encourage her to talk about her fantasies and to encourage her to watch porn. If she is having a moral dilemma with this, you will need to give her time to wrap her mind around this. It isn't something a girl can just toss to the side and jump into the deep end. It takes time and takes handling anything about sex with kid gloves.
In order for a woman to open up about her fantasies she needs to be able to trust you and to count on you not to make fun of her and ridicule her sh. She will not open up if pushed, especially with her upbringing. It takes a man to step back and think about and get to know his girl's needs and then cater to them.
Her ******* of choice does help a lot....so where is the tequila? Or for that matter margaritas are good too.
Dont push her. First you should try soft cuckolding, watch some ir porn, use black dildo begger than your cock, use black condoms, let her flirt and chat with black guys on this site, post some pics or video. You dont need to rush.
maybe you should wait and let her decide if she wants to make you a cuck and if she is nervous about bbc why not start her out with a white guy with a decent cock. If you give her absolute control over you she will likely have bbc and make you service it as well. Men who want a woman to cuck them should realize that it works best if they submit and prove to the woman that they will be a willing , loyal and sumissive cuck
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