Seduce my wife

[cuckold-sp]

Hi!

I'm looking for a man to seduce my wife.

I will help him on how to start, thinks to talk about, hobbies, etc..., but she must not know anything.

In all this game the brain is more important than the dick.

She is 31, 178 cm, 60 kg and redhaired, We live in Spain so preferably if you are from Europe (specially from UK) for a possible meeting.

 

[MacNfries]

I know you think this is something "hot & exciting" to do, but when a woman allows herself to be seduced by another man its because she's not being satified (could be non-sexual reason) at home. Assuming the reason you desire another man to seduce her is to watch her have sex with another man, you might be better served with sharing sexual fantasies with her and possibly swing a 3-some which includes another man.
What you are wanting HER to do is actually betray you, which I don't think you should desire her to breach her own integrity. I'd think this idea over before pursuing, and go in a different direction. If you encourage her to do it once, its almost certain she'll do it again, in the future, and you won't be the least bit aware of it. That's not the kind of partnership you should desire. Mac

 

[fredjac]

I know you think this is something "hot & exciting" to do, but when a woman allows herself to be seduced by another man its because she's not being satified (could be non-sexual reason) at home. Assuming the reason you desire another man to seduce her is to watch her have sex with another man, you might be better served with sharing sexual fantasies with her and possibly swing a 3-some which includes another man.
What you are wanting HER to do is actually betray you, which I don't think you should desire her to breach her own integrity. I'd think this idea over before pursuing, and go in a different direction. If you encourage her to do it once, its almost certain she'll do it again, in the future, and you won't be the least bit aware of it. That's not the kind of partnership you should desire. Mac

yes mac u telling how it is he's playing with fire like that

 

[udomlya]

I'm looking for a man to seduce my wife. I will help him on how to start, thinks to talk about, hobbies, etc..., but she must not know anything.

If you set her up that way without telling her first, she will likely feel that you don't care about her, and you could easily lose her. Talk to her about your feelings and be sure that you are both on the same page before planning anything. Mis dos centavos.

 

[cuckold-sp]

I know you think this is something "hot & exciting" to do, but when a woman allows herself to be seduced by another man its because she's not being satified (could be non-sexual reason) at home. Assuming the reason you desire another man to seduce her is to watch her have sex with another man, you might be better served with sharing sexual fantasies with her and possibly swing a 3-some which includes another man.
What you are wanting HER to do is actually betray you, which I don't think you should desire her to breach her own integrity. I'd think this idea over before pursuing, and go in a different direction. If you encourage her to do it once, its almost certain she'll do it again, in the future, and you won't be the least bit aware of it. That's not the kind of partnership you should desire. Mac

You may be right.

The thing is that i've told my wife lots of times that i would like to be cuckolded and while we have sex we have imagined lot of times that she is with another man, but she doesn't dare to make it real.

I should give her some more time, because, as you say, this way means a betrayal and if you betray once you will do it again in the future and a betrayal means the end of the relationship.

Thanks to all for your opinions, i go definitely in the wrong way.

 

[bobnjill]

This really depends on their relationship. My wife has been seduced many times without her knowing it was set up. She loves the attention and knows she plays with approval

 

[ncbbccuckcpl]

Hi!

I'm looking for a man to seduce my wife.

I will help him on how to start, thinks to talk about, hobbies, etc..., but she must not know anything.

In all this game the brain is more important than the dick.

She is 31, 178 cm, 60 kg and redhaired, We live in Spain so preferably if you are from Europe (specially from UK) for a possible meeting.

so many fools... so many fools.

 

[dunacouple]

You may be right.

The thing is that i've told my wife lots of times that i would like to be cuckolded and while we have sex we have imagined lot of times that she is with another man, but she doesn't dare to make it real.

I should give her some more time, because, as you say, this way means a betrayal and if you betray once you will do it again in the future and a betrayal means the end of the relationship.

Thanks to all for your opinions, i go definitely in the wrong way.

How long have you guys been talking about it?

Use your frustration and put all the energy you have in to the relationship. This is both the best way to know for sure if this is the lifestyle you wish and the best way to see if your wife is willing to try.

Put as much energy in to the relationship as you can. Be romantic, do things she likes to do, finish stuff you promised etc. Don't jack off to IR porn for a while instead use that time to invest in your wife. If during that time you still feel the need to seduce her to try live out your fantasy make sure you do so. After a while you will know for certain if she will ever be ready. When a women feels absolutely loved and have an unconditional commitment from their husband the chance she will say yes are the biggest and the outcome the best.

Never try to cheat your wife in to cheating. Like mac said, thats just plain stupid. Not to mention, how do you think that will play out. You think the guy fucking her will keep his mouth shut and what kidn of trust will be left is she finds out. She will feel like traded cow and a whore.

 

[Ann4BBC]

I think the idea of a husband setting the wife up is a very bad idea.
Ive been married over 20 years and felt very frumpy and un sexy after raising the two *******. My husband always said I was nice looking and sexy but I lacked confidence.
So to be fancied and chatted up by good looking, young black guys who wanted me really has made me feel good about myself. Ive slimmed, wear sexy clothes and am more confident in our group of friends than hubby now!
If I found out that my husband had originally set me up with a black guy, got him to seduce me or paid a guy or whatever, I would be devastated. It would hurt me and I dont think I could trust my hubby ever again.
So guys, be careful if youre genuinely thinking of this idea. X

 

[MacNfries]

This is a fairly old thread, but I think cuckold-sp (the OP) gave this more thought and reconsidered.
I think all of us have marital "temptations" throughout our marriages, and we don't need someone else dangling the bone for us to take. It's sort of like putting a bowl of candy or cookies in front of a 3-4 year old and telling them they can't have any right now. Its just not right to encourage a individual to do the wrong thing behind the back of the person they care about. I'd much prefer having established good communication so we could discuss such topics.

Years ago I was on a work assignment in Johnson City, Tn that required me being at a motel for a few days. The motel had a really nice bar, and I frequented it during their "happy hour" time. The 2nd night I was there, this really cute blonde, who looked like a spitting image of Cheryl Ladd, sat down next to me, at the bar, and started conversation. Normally, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but I was early at the bar and there were only a couple other people sitting at the bar; she chose to sit right next to me and order herself a wine. Then she initiated talking with me, and asking me where I was from, etc etc ... after about 10 minutes of chat, she came right out and asked me "if I would like some company for the night" ... and she didn't look homeless to me, so I knew this girl was hooking. Now, if I was single, I'd have probably took her up on the offer, but I just smiled, and thanked her for the offer "but" ... . She finished her wine, got up, said her good night, and left. And in my mind I'm saying "damn, damn, damn!" But, my wife and I agree to swing together so that's the way it is.
Mac

ps ... and for those who don't remember Cheryl Ladd (old Charlie's Angel star)

 

[design82]

This is a fairly old thread, but I think cuckold-sp (the OP) gave this more thought and reconsidered.
I think all of us have marital "temptations" throughout our marriages, and we don't need someone else dangling the bone for us to take. It's sort of like putting a bowl of candy or cookies in front of a 3-4 year old and telling them they can't have any right now. Its just not right to encourage a individual to do the wrong thing behind the back of the person they care about. I'd much prefer having established good communication so we could discuss such topics.

Years ago I was on a work assignment in Johnson City, Tn that required me being at a motel for a few days. The motel had a really nice bar, and I frequented it during their "happy hour" time. The 2nd night I was there, this really cute blonde, who looked like a spitting image of Cheryl Ladd, sat down next to me, at the bar, and started conversation. Normally, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but I was early at the bar and there were only a couple other people sitting at the bar; she chose to sit right next to me and order herself a wine. Then she initiated talking with me, and asking me where I was from, etc etc ... after about 10 minutes of chat, she came right out and asked me "if I would like some company for the night" ... and she didn't look homeless to me, so I knew this girl was hooking. Now, if I was single, I'd have probably took her up on the offer, but I just smiled, and thanked her for the offer "but" ... . She finished her wine, got up, said her good night, and left. And in my mind I'm saying "damn, damn, damn!" But, my wife and I agree to swing together so that's the way it is.
Mac

ps ... and for those who don't remember Cheryl Ladd (old Charlie's Angel star)
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...Cheryl was the prettiest of the Angels (although the others ran her close!)

 

[Curiouscpl14]

It would be fun to arrange something like this