This is a fairly old thread, but I think
cuckold-sp (the OP) gave this more thought and reconsidered.
I think all of us have marital "temptations" throughout our marriages, and we don't need someone else dangling the bone for us to take. It's sort of like putting a bowl of candy or cookies in front of a 3-4 year old and telling them they can't have any right now. Its just not right to encourage a individual to do the wrong thing behind the back of the person they care about. I'd much prefer having established good communication so we could discuss such topics.
Years ago I was on a work assignment in Johnson City, Tn that required me being at a motel for a few days. The motel had a really nice bar, and I frequented it during their "happy hour" time. The 2nd night I was there, this really cute blonde, who looked like a spitting image of Cheryl Ladd, sat down next to me, at the bar, and started conversation. Normally, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but I was early at the bar and there were only a couple other people sitting at the bar; she chose to sit right next to me and order herself a wine. Then she initiated talking with me, and asking me where I was from, etc etc ... after about 10 minutes of chat, she came right out and asked me "if I would like some company for the night" ... and she didn't look homeless to me, so I knew this girl was hooking. Now, if I was single, I'd have probably took her up on the offer, but I just smiled, and thanked her for the offer "but" ... . She finished her wine, got up, said her good night, and left. And in my mind I'm saying
"damn, damn, damn!" But, my wife and I agree to swing together so that's the way it is.
Mac
ps ... and for those who don't remember Cheryl Ladd (old Charlie's Angel star)
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