My wife and I are in our mid 40's and have been together since high school. We are not prudes and have been to several nude beaches. We have only been intimate with each other. Recently my wife shared a fantasy of having sex with a big black man while being watched. We take a Caribbean trip every year so I convinced her this year to try out her fantasy What better place to fulfill her being watched fantasy. We have been reading cuckolding stories and have had some exciting sex talking about what we will do. During one evening she asked if I would enjoy watching her have sex with black men at the same time, me included. My initial response was " that sounds very exciting". We have had exciting sex several times since then with some fantasy role play to simulate the "black man" experience. I feel now that I have opened a can of worms and will not be able to handle it. I'm afraid the excitement will cause me to finish too quickly and leave me there watching my wife enjoy a big black stud who is in much better shape and more well endowed than me. My question to the men is how do you get over the feelings of watching your wife being pleasured by other men? Does it get easier when your in the moment. For the ladies: is having sex with black men a common fantasy? Do I stick with the plan and allow my wife to enjoy herself for the week or do I cancel our plans until I think I handle it?