My wife's very first lover was a Black college football player at WVU. He went on to play for the NFL and is now retired. He contacted her several years back and was interested in hooking up with her even though she was now a married mother. Unfortunately I did not approve of the relationship at the time and it didn't end well for any of us I am now hoping to mend the relationship between us. I would love for him to be her BBC bull. I am pretty sure he would love it too. It might be a long shot but if you fit the description please let me know.