SC male first timer here

I'm wondering all about how to get started in Sc with this site. Have never tried playing with someone's wife/gf in front of them. Seems intriguing. What are the perks and or downsides? Any experienced couples out there want to give pointers or experienced bulls .. . . . .6'3" chocolate doughboy. Hitting gym 3x week to get into bodybuilding shape! Look forward to hearing from you