Rules Of Being a Bull

BigPapa

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Ok, I need to tell some of you young bulls their is rules to being a Bull.
This is not for only Black Bulls but all Bulls , because I had to school a young latino bull on etiquette .
I just got into a argument with a young bull over his behavior after a mutual friend who is a white cuckold told me the nonsense he brought into him and his wife home leading them to cut him out their lives.

1.When a Couple is having personal issues at home , do not interject or take a side if anything reschedule playtime when things cool down .
Donot ask what is going on , just mind your damn business when a wife and husband going through some bullshit .
Be clear you are not to take a side and its ok to tell them keep their issues about each other to themselves .

2. Do not borrow money from your couple , and if you do please pay them back as expeditiously as possible .
Borrowing money and not paying it back quickly can breed resentment and misunderstanding , I recommend to never do that at all.

3. If you sleep over that doesn't mean you raid their fucking fridge or leave their seat up , you are to have fucking manners (seriously who raised some of you dudes).

4. Remember she isn't yours her cuck husband is just sharing her with you for the moment , she loves him not you know your fucking place you are the party favor not the main meal , humble yourself buddy .

5. If she is catching feelings , YOU NEED TO DISTANCE YOURSELF AND TELL HER HUSBAND WHY YOU GOTTA STEP BACK DONT JUST GHOST!

6. Its okay to be close friends with your cuckold couple , but don't put their business out in front street its not right and its a betrayal of trust .
I'm still cool with a cuckold couple I became close with and we still text after they moved from NY to Arizona 11 years ago .

7. If they invite you in to their larger friend circle , Don't bring chaos in to it .

8. Create Rules with your Cuckold Couple , its okay to sit down and create rules , boundaries and understanding to what this sexual relationship looks like and what it should be by be honest with one another if their is to be friendship beyond just sex .
I know Bulls who been close with their Cuckold couple for over 20 years and even let their wives swing with only them .

9. If you caught a STD from some side pussy , fucking tell them for Christ sake , protect them and care for them they don't deserve that type of betrayal , if you bring dirty dick into a long term cuckold relationship you deserve your ass kicked 1000% .
If a couple caught a STD which is rare , you have the responsibility of protecting your bull and giving him the choice to continue in a sexual relationship with you both don't take that from him , he has the right to know be kind and good to him .

10. Do not talk politics and social issues if your views are not aligned with your cuckold couple this breeds lack of comfortability and resentment , DONOT DO IT!

11.Understand swinging and cuckold relationships at its core is Fetishism , you fetishize her they fetishize you .
It don't mean they don't see you as a human being , if you don't understand that you should probably stay in the vanilla world .
 
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Ok, I need to tell some of you young bulls their is rules to being a Bull.
This is not for only Black Bulls but all Bulls , because I had to school a young latino bull on etiquette .
I just got into a argument with a young bull over his behavior after a mutual friend who is a white cuckold told me the nonsense he brought into him and his wife home leading them to cut him out their lives.

1.When a Couple is having personal issues at home , do not interject or take a side if anything reschedule playtime when things cool down .
Donot ask what is going on , just mind your damn business when a wife and husband going through some bullshit .
Be clear you are not to take a side and its ok to tell them keep their issues about each other to themselves .

2. Do not borrow money from your couple , and if you do please pay them back as expeditiously as possible .
Borrowing money and not paying it back quickly can breed resentment and misunderstanding , I recommend to never do that at all.

3. If you sleep over that doesn't mean you raid their fucking fridge or leave their seat up , you are to have fucking manners (seriously who raised some of you dudes).

4. Remember she isn't yours her cuck husband is just sharing her with you for the moment , she loves him not you know your fucking place you are the party favor not the main meal , humble yourself buddy .

5. If she is catching feelings , YOU NEED TO DISTANCE YOURSELF AND TELL HER HUSBAND WHY YOU GOTTA STEP BACK DONT JUST GHOST!

6. Its okay to be close friends with your cuckold couple , but don't put their business out in front street its not right and its a betrayal of trust .
I'm still cool with a cuckold couple I became close with and we still text after they moved from NY to Arizona 11 years ago .

7. If they invite you in to their larger friend circle , Don't bring chaos in to it .

8. Create Rules with your Cuckold Couple , its okay to sit down and create rules , boundaries and understanding to what this sexual relationship looks like and what it should be by be honest with one another if their is to be friendship beyond just sex .
I know Bulls who been close with their Cuckold couple for over 20 years and even let their wives swing with only them .

9. If you caught a STD from some side pussy , fucking tell them for Christ sake , protect them and care for them they don't deserve that type of betrayal , if you bring dirty dick into a long term cuckold relationship you deserve your ass kicked 1000% .
If a couple caught a STD which is rare , you have the responsibility of protecting your bull and giving him the choice to continue in a sexual relationship with you both don't take that from him , he has the right to know be kind and good to him .

10. Do not talk politics and social issues if your views are not aligned with your cuckold couple this breeds lack of comfortability and resentment , DONOT DO IT!

11.Understand swinging and cuckold relationships at its core is Fetishism , you fetishize her they fetishize you .
It don't mean they don't see you as a human being , if you don't understand that you should probably stay in the vanilla world .
I like your list. I disagree with number one. If a couple id having issues in a relationship then it is not adviseable to be a part of the ******* show going on. They do not need a third in a relationship that is struggling with 2. Find another or back away.
 
Ok, I need to tell some of you young bulls their is rules to being a Bull.
This is not for only Black Bulls but all Bulls , because I had to school a young latino bull on etiquette .
I just got into a argument with a young bull over his behavior after a mutual friend who is a white cuckold told me the nonsense he brought into him and his wife home leading them to cut him out their lives.

1.When a Couple is having personal issues at home , do not interject or take a side if anything reschedule playtime when things cool down .
Donot ask what is going on , just mind your damn business when a wife and husband going through some bullshit .
Be clear you are not to take a side and its ok to tell them keep their issues about each other to themselves .

2. Do not borrow money from your couple , and if you do please pay them back as expeditiously as possible .
Borrowing money and not paying it back quickly can breed resentment and misunderstanding , I recommend to never do that at all.

3. If you sleep over that doesn't mean you raid their fucking fridge or leave their seat up , you are to have fucking manners (seriously who raised some of you dudes).

4. Remember she isn't yours her cuck husband is just sharing her with you for the moment , she loves him not you know your fucking place you are the party favor not the main meal , humble yourself buddy .

5. If she is catching feelings , YOU NEED TO DISTANCE YOURSELF AND TELL HER HUSBAND WHY YOU GOTTA STEP BACK DONT JUST GHOST!

6. Its okay to be close friends with your cuckold couple , but don't put their business out in front street its not right and its a betrayal of trust .
I'm still cool with a cuckold couple I became close with and we still text after they moved from NY to Arizona 11 years ago .

7. If they invite you in to their larger friend circle , Don't bring chaos in to it .

8. Create Rules with your Cuckold Couple , its okay to sit down and create rules , boundaries and understanding to what this sexual relationship looks like and what it should be by be honest with one another if their is to be friendship beyond just sex .
I know Bulls who been close with their Cuckold couple for over 20 years and even let their wives swing with only them .

9. If you caught a STD from some side pussy , fucking tell them for Christ sake , protect them and care for them they don't deserve that type of betrayal , if you bring dirty dick into a long term cuckold relationship you deserve your ass kicked 1000% .
If a couple caught a STD which is rare , you have the responsibility of protecting your bull and giving him the choice to continue in a sexual relationship with you both don't take that from him , he has the right to know be kind and good to him .

10. Do not talk politics and social issues if your views are not aligned with your cuckold couple this breeds lack of comfortability and resentment , DONOT DO IT!

11.Understand swinging and cuckold relationships at its core is Fetishism , you fetishize her they fetishize you .
It don't mean they don't see you as a human being , if you don't understand that you should probably stay in the vanilla world .
Excellent list. It’s an understanding between parties. Respect that and everyone wins.
 
We have a guy friend we get with semi regularly. He's younger, clean, divorced, has a good job, he's very reliable. We get along well, we can have intelligent conversations.
He's the one we started all this with. We never had any rules but we don't need any. Nothing crazy happens, we take turns with her and we all have a good time. He's never said or done anything to seem like he's in charge.
As to #7 above...we don't do anything with him other than invite him over for sex fun. We have invited him to backyard BBQ gatherings at our home with some of our normal friends. He's super cool, fits in well and he's polite. My wife damn ass gets off with him mingling with our friends especially after a night we've included him for sexy fun.
 
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We have a guy friend we get with semi regularly. He's younger, clean, divorced, has a good job, he's very reliable. We get along well, we can have an intelligent conversations.
He's the one we started all this with. We never had any rules but we don't need any. Nothing crazy happens, we take turns with her and we all have a good time. He's never said or done anything to seem like he's in charge.
As to #7 above...we don't do anything with him other than invite him over for sex fun. We have invited him to backyard BBQ gatherings at our home with some of our normal friends. He's super cool, fits in well and he's polite. My wife damn ass gets off with him mingling with our friends especially after a night we've included him for sexy fun.
That is a good thing you got going on and is a model example for all in the lifestyle .
 
In my/our opinion there are only three rules for being a bull:

§1 Respect the couple! It is their kick not yours!
§2 Play your part with passion but also with prudence! Yes, they want these kind of hard sex - no more no less!
§3 Be aware after a sessions to leave early - it needs time do come down and find back to "couple-balance" -> alone!
 
Ok, I need to tell some of you young bulls their is rules to being a Bull.
This is not for only Black Bulls but all Bulls , because I had to school a young latino bull on etiquette .
I just got into a argument with a young bull over his behavior after a mutual friend who is a white cuckold told me the nonsense he brought into him and his wife home leading them to cut him out their lives.

1.When a Couple is having personal issues at home , do not interject or take a side if anything reschedule playtime when things cool down .
Donot ask what is going on , just mind your damn business when a wife and husband going through some bullshit .
Be clear you are not to take a side and its ok to tell them keep their issues about each other to themselves .

2. Do not borrow money from your couple , and if you do please pay them back as expeditiously as possible .
Borrowing money and not paying it back quickly can breed resentment and misunderstanding , I recommend to never do that at all.

3. If you sleep over that doesn't mean you raid their fucking fridge or leave their seat up , you are to have fucking manners (seriously who raised some of you dudes).

4. Remember she isn't yours her cuck husband is just sharing her with you for the moment , she loves him not you know your fucking place you are the party favor not the main meal , humble yourself buddy .

5. If she is catching feelings , YOU NEED TO DISTANCE YOURSELF AND TELL HER HUSBAND WHY YOU GOTTA STEP BACK DONT JUST GHOST!

6. Its okay to be close friends with your cuckold couple , but don't put their business out in front street its not right and its a betrayal of trust .
I'm still cool with a cuckold couple I became close with and we still text after they moved from NY to Arizona 11 years ago .

7. If they invite you in to their larger friend circle , Don't bring chaos in to it .

8. Create Rules with your Cuckold Couple , its okay to sit down and create rules , boundaries and understanding to what this sexual relationship looks like and what it should be by be honest with one another if their is to be friendship beyond just sex .
I know Bulls who been close with their Cuckold couple for over 20 years and even let their wives swing with only them .

9. If you caught a STD from some side pussy , fucking tell them for Christ sake , protect them and care for them they don't deserve that type of betrayal , if you bring dirty dick into a long term cuckold relationship you deserve your ass kicked 1000% .
If a couple caught a STD which is rare , you have the responsibility of protecting your bull and giving him the choice to continue in a sexual relationship with you both don't take that from him , he has the right to know be kind and good to him .

10. Do not talk politics and social issues if your views are not aligned with your cuckold couple this breeds lack of comfortability and resentment , DONOT DO IT!

11.Understand swinging and cuckold relationships at its core is Fetishism , you fetishize her they fetishize you .
It don't mean they don't see you as a human being , if you don't understand that you should probably stay in the vanilla world .
This should be sticky'ed somewhere; if our account had the authorization it'd be up there.

Great thoughts, well said, good personal info. Points 7+8 stand out here especially. Universal truth.

As the bull husband willing to share, its a challenge to find the right connections. In the end, life is about relationships. Always respect your relationships because you can build on them, good things can happen. We are social creatures. Build and maintain relationships and doors open to good things.

Thank you for sharing.
 
In my/our opinion there are only three rules for being a bull:

§1 Respect the couple! It is their kick not yours!
§2 Play your part with passion but also with prudence! Yes, they want these kind of hard sex - no more no less!
§3 Be aware after a sessions to leave early - it needs time do come down and find back to "couple-balance" -> alone!
No offense to you , your opinion is your opinion .
This list is based on real world experiences of Bulls and Couples I talk too on the regular still.
I respect your opinion but I dont need to be told what to say .
 
I found many items ridiculous. Above all, the existence of a list like "the rules of being a bull" is the most ridiculous thing. Each bull may have his or her own style and each couple may have different levels of expectations
 
Nothing wrong with your rules but these are only appropriate for kinksters that "share" sexual experience.

Well and good.

HOWEVER, a Bull is a Dominant for-ce and doesn't "share" in the same manner.

He possesses the White slut and dominates the cuck. As long as SHE wants IT and the Bull agrees, the cuck is a third wheel and while not necessarily unwelcome, is not entitled to an opinion.

Sorry/not sorry. Whites under BNWO accept a different standard for their conduct.
 
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