Rookie Moves

Where should I begin? I've been a part of this site all but what...12 hours? and have been observing the types of conversations and threads taking place. From what I gathered, this site seems to be more oriented towards the fantasy of bbc worship / cuckolding rather than the actual practice. I hope I'm wrong. So if anyone out there would love to give me tips on making these potential meetings a reality I'm open to advice on what steps to take.