Resistance is futile

circus

Active Member
#1
http://marriedmansexlife.com/2010/11/the-hot-wife-fantasy/
Many men experience the idea of their wife having sex with another man as both threatening and stressful, but also somewhat arousing as well. It’s an intense physical and emotional state.



I think the sense of threat and stress is easily understood by most people, but the sexual arousal is not. The source of the sexual arousal comes from the natural sperm warfare reaction. If another man is putting sperm into your wife’s vagina, one very biological method of trying to ensure that his sperm does not impregnate her is to flood her vagina with your own sperm. The human penis is also designed to work as a suction pump when thrust in and out of a vagina as well. So having watched another man ejaculate into your wife, the immediate best reaction to seek to avoid her getting pregnant to him, is to put your penis into her and vigorously have sex and pump his out. Plus of course dump a large as possible volume of your own semen into her. Hence the huge sense of being turned on. Even when used as a fantasy the sense of “cumming unusually hard” is experienced.
thats right.

we cannot help it. we cant do anything about it.

You can lie to yourself. You can fight the urge. But it will never go away.

we are hardwired to be turned on by our wives having sex with other men.
 

willsrvu

Male
Real Person
Gold Member
#3
"He is a “Mixed Marital Artist” combining a variety of relationship approaches from evolutionary psychology, Pickup Artist “Game”, sociology, biology, life experience, romance novels, crappy women’s magazines, far too many books, blogging, behavior modification and poorly applied Vulcan mind melds.
He has distilled all this research into a few outstandingly effective tactics for gaining happiness and sex in marriage."

Well it's good to know that one wouldn't be taking advice from just any Athol on the internet! :bounce: