Reluctant wife

NathG

Male
Recently brought up the idea of trying some Hotwife fun with my wife, came about after we had some porn on during sex and she picked a blacked scene with an ebony and white girl doing threesome with black guy. Found it rather hot she decided on that scene and asked if she would join in sharing his bbc and if she could manage such a big cock which she replied yes. I went on to bring up the idea of us trying some fun with bbc, having to go through and explain what a Hotwife actually was, she seemed to like the idea but was clear on that it would only be her having the fun which I was happy with. I then asked if she wanted me to order her a bbc dildo so she could start getting used to big cock which she was wanted, it arrived and I messaged to let her know her new toy was here once she was home from work she rushed upstairs to see, had her lay down on bed and sat it on her face she couldn’t believe how big it was I asked her to suck it but she hesitated and gave the tip a lick and suggested we try it out that night. We put some blacked porn on and she got to try out her new bbc dildo she sucked and licked it while I licked her pussy to get her ready for dildo she was enjoying sucking cock while being eaten out and came twice before putting silos inside herself and getting used to size she tried for a while before getting a bit sore so we moved onto me fucking her which lasted seconds as I loved the feeling of her stretched pussy and came hard telling her how good it felt after she’d been used by bbc. The dildo got used during sex almost every time and we chatted about different things we’d like to try she loved idea of me giving oral before and during getting fucked, she also ordered herself some thigh high boots as I told her I’d love to see her being fucked wearing some. We also thought about a black personal trainer for her to workout with and eventually work her pussy out too, she found a guy online and showed me him and went on about his veiny arms and muscles, even discussed if she would be open to playing with other couples in a threesome with bbc which she was open to idea. Started setting up a profile on swing site and what she was comfortable with if she wanted to try a club night for couples looking for black guys a hotel but she decided on finding a guy who could accommodate us overnight at their place. I found a few guys that were good looking hung and in good shape and dominant as she said she’d prefer a guy to take charge of her, initially she seemed keen on the idea but over time just went off it completely which I’m struggling to understand?? She was enjoying herself and horny about it to start and suggestions as to why the change now
 
Recently brought up the idea of trying some Hotwife fun with my wife, came about after we had some porn on during sex and she picked a blacked scene with an ebony and white girl doing threesome with black guy. Found it rather hot she decided on that scene and asked if she would join in sharing his bbc and if she could manage such a big cock which she replied yes. I went on to bring up the idea of us trying some fun with bbc, having to go through and explain what a Hotwife actually was, she seemed to like the idea but was clear on that it would only be her having the fun which I was happy with. I then asked if she wanted me to order her a bbc dildo so she could start getting used to big cock which she was wanted, it arrived and I messaged to let her know her new toy was here once she was home from work she rushed upstairs to see, had her lay down on bed and sat it on her face she couldn’t believe how big it was I asked her to suck it but she hesitated and gave the tip a lick and suggested we try it out that night. We put some blacked porn on and she got to try out her new bbc dildo she sucked and licked it while I licked her pussy to get her ready for dildo she was enjoying sucking cock while being eaten out and came twice before putting silos inside herself and getting used to size she tried for a while before getting a bit sore so we moved onto me fucking her which lasted seconds as I loved the feeling of her stretched pussy and came hard telling her how good it felt after she’d been used by bbc. The dildo got used during sex almost every time and we chatted about different things we’d like to try she loved idea of me giving oral before and during getting fucked, she also ordered herself some thigh high boots as I told her I’d love to see her being fucked wearing some. We also thought about a black personal trainer for her to workout with and eventually work her pussy out too, she found a guy online and showed me him and went on about his veiny arms and muscles, even discussed if she would be open to playing with other couples in a threesome with bbc which she was open to idea. Started setting up a profile on swing site and what she was comfortable with if she wanted to try a club night for couples looking for black guys a hotel but she decided on finding a guy who could accommodate us overnight at their place. I found a few guys that were good looking hung and in good shape and dominant as she said she’d prefer a guy to take charge of her, initially she seemed keen on the idea but over time just went off it completely which I’m struggling to understand?? She was enjoying herself and horny about it to start and suggestions as to why the change now
 
Recently brought up the idea of trying some Hotwife fun with my wife, came about after we had some porn on during sex and she picked a blacked scene with an ebony and white girl doing threesome with black guy. Found it rather hot she decided on that scene and asked if she would join in sharing his bbc and if she could manage such a big cock which she replied yes. I went on to bring up the idea of us trying some fun with bbc, having to go through and explain what a Hotwife actually was, she seemed to like the idea but was clear on that it would only be her having the fun which I was happy with. I then asked if she wanted me to order her a bbc dildo so she could start getting used to big cock which she was wanted, it arrived and I messaged to let her know her new toy was here once she was home from work she rushed upstairs to see, had her lay down on bed and sat it on her face she couldn’t believe how big it was I asked her to suck it but she hesitated and gave the tip a lick and suggested we try it out that night. We put some blacked porn on and she got to try out her new bbc dildo she sucked and licked it while I licked her pussy to get her ready for dildo she was enjoying sucking cock while being eaten out and came twice before putting silos inside herself and getting used to size she tried for a while before getting a bit sore so we moved onto me fucking her which lasted seconds as I loved the feeling of her stretched pussy and came hard telling her how good it felt after she’d been used by bbc. The dildo got used during sex almost every time and we chatted about different things we’d like to try she loved idea of me giving oral before and during getting fucked, she also ordered herself some thigh high boots as I told her I’d love to see her being fucked wearing some. We also thought about a black personal trainer for her to workout with and eventually work her pussy out too, she found a guy online and showed me him and went on about his veiny arms and muscles, even discussed if she would be open to playing with other couples in a threesome with bbc which she was open to idea. Started setting up a profile on swing site and what she was comfortable with if she wanted to try a club night for couples looking for black guys a hotel but she decided on finding a guy who could accommodate us overnight at their place. I found a few guys that were good looking hung and in good shape and dominant as she said she’d prefer a guy to take charge of her, initially she seemed keen on the idea but over time just went off it completely which I’m struggling to understand?? She was enjoying herself and horny about it to start and suggestions as to why the change now
I am looking forward to watching my wife finally receiving her first BBC !
What finally got your wife to commit ?
 
I am looking forward to watching my wife finally receiving her first BBC !
What finally got your wife to commit ?
Our was a use situation! During a home invasion my wife had her first black cock so there was no decision for her to make. It was traumatic and we went to a counselor who told us to discuss it and be honest! That night she confessed that she had an orgasm when it happened! We continued to discuss it for months and finely honestly realized the thought was erotic to both of us! It didn’t happen overnight but eventually she got to repeat that experience with me watching!
 
Recently brought up the idea of trying some Hotwife fun with my wife, came about after we had some porn on during sex and she picked a blacked scene with an ebony and white girl doing threesome with black guy. Found it rather hot she decided on that scene and asked if she would join in sharing his bbc and if she could manage such a big cock which she replied yes. I went on to bring up the idea of us trying some fun with bbc, having to go through and explain what a Hotwife actually was, she seemed to like the idea but was clear on that it would only be her having the fun which I was happy with. I then asked if she wanted me to order her a bbc dildo so she could start getting used to big cock which she was wanted, it arrived and I messaged to let her know her new toy was here once she was home from work she rushed upstairs to see, had her lay down on bed and sat it on her face she couldn’t believe how big it was I asked her to suck it but she hesitated and gave the tip a lick and suggested we try it out that night. We put some blacked porn on and she got to try out her new bbc dildo she sucked and licked it while I licked her pussy to get her ready for dildo she was enjoying sucking cock while being eaten out and came twice before putting silos inside herself and getting used to size she tried for a while before getting a bit sore so we moved onto me fucking her which lasted seconds as I loved the feeling of her stretched pussy and came hard telling her how good it felt after she’d been used by bbc. The dildo got used during sex almost every time and we chatted about different things we’d like to try she loved idea of me giving oral before and during getting fucked, she also ordered herself some thigh high boots as I told her I’d love to see her being fucked wearing some. We also thought about a black personal trainer for her to workout with and eventually work her pussy out too, she found a guy online and showed me him and went on about his veiny arms and muscles, even discussed if she would be open to playing with other couples in a threesome with bbc which she was open to idea. Started setting up a profile on swing site and what she was comfortable with if she wanted to try a club night for couples looking for black guys a hotel but she decided on finding a guy who could accommodate us overnight at their place. I found a few guys that were good looking hung and in good shape and dominant as she said she’d prefer a guy to take charge of her, initially she seemed keen on the idea but over time just went off it completely which I’m struggling to understand?? She was enjoying herself and horny about it to start and suggestions as to why the change now
She is facing reality now. Not watching a bidet not just words not just a toy

Fears. Relshipbond, love. Insecurities of falling for bbc,

You need good open talks.
 
Recently brought up the idea of trying some Hotwife fun with my wife, came about after we had some porn on during sex and she picked a blacked scene with an ebony and white girl doing threesome with black guy. Found it rather hot she decided on that scene and asked if she would join in sharing his bbc and if she could manage such a big cock which she replied yes. I went on to bring up the idea of us trying some fun with bbc, having to go through and explain what a Hotwife actually was, she seemed to like the idea but was clear on that it would only be her having the fun which I was happy with. I then asked if she wanted me to order her a bbc dildo so she could start getting used to big cock which she was wanted, it arrived and I messaged to let her know her new toy was here once she was home from work she rushed upstairs to see, had her lay down on bed and sat it on her face she couldn’t believe how big it was I asked her to suck it but she hesitated and gave the tip a lick and suggested we try it out that night. We put some blacked porn on and she got to try out her new bbc dildo she sucked and licked it while I licked her pussy to get her ready for dildo she was enjoying sucking cock while being eaten out and came twice before putting silos inside herself and getting used to size she tried for a while before getting a bit sore so we moved onto me fucking her which lasted seconds as I loved the feeling of her stretched pussy and came hard telling her how good it felt after she’d been used by bbc. The dildo got used during sex almost every time and we chatted about different things we’d like to try she loved idea of me giving oral before and during getting fucked, she also ordered herself some thigh high boots as I told her I’d love to see her being fucked wearing some. We also thought about a black personal trainer for her to workout with and eventually work her pussy out too, she found a guy online and showed me him and went on about his veiny arms and muscles, even discussed if she would be open to playing with other couples in a threesome with bbc which she was open to idea. Started setting up a profile on swing site and what she was comfortable with if she wanted to try a club night for couples looking for black guys a hotel but she decided on finding a guy who could accommodate us overnight at their place. I found a few guys that were good looking hung and in good shape and dominant as she said she’d prefer a guy to take charge of her, initially she seemed keen on the idea but over time just went off it completely which I’m struggling to understand?? She was enjoying herself and horny about it to start and suggestions as to why the change now
Love to help her get back to getting used by my bbc!
 
Our was a use situation! During a home invasion my wife had her first black cock so there was no decision for her to make. It was traumatic and we went to a counselor who told us to discuss it and be honest! That night she confessed that she had an orgasm when it happened! We continued to discuss it for months and finely honestly realized the thought was erotic to both of us! It didn’t happen overnight but eventually she got to repeat that experience with me watching!
That's a way to get use to it!
 
Sometimes it's hotter as a fantasy, than actually following through with it. No need to rush or pressure her beyond her comfort zone - realize what you're asking her to do. Communicate clearly with each other, and go from there.
Yes that is true you want her to want it not be haunted by it!
 
Our was a use situation! During a home invasion my wife had her first black cock so there was no decision for her to make. It was traumatic and we went to a counselor who told us to discuss it and be honest! That night she confessed that she had an orgasm when it happened! We continued to discuss it for months and finely honestly realized the thought was erotic to both of us! It didn’t happen overnight but eventually she got to repeat that experience with me watching!
Trauma response often leads to related kinks.
 
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