I am sure I am not the only one. I was raised very religious. But some things never sat well with me. For example: if you do not have the means to give, why do they pass a plate around so everyone can stare at you and think bad about you for not giving? Or: If you enjoy things of the flesh (BBC, swinging, etc), but you are from a strict religious group (or even not so strict) how do you deal with those differences? Basically, I am asking those of us who were raised religious, and especially those who still are (go to church, pray, etc.), how do you deal with your desires and reconcile that with your religion?