......babygirlsub, welcome to this website. You seem orginal and real.
......Actually, this is one of the best questions asked in quite a while, and I hope you'll get feedback from the forum, especially from the wives who have become involved, and some of the cuck husbands who are here as well. Just because a man allows, or even encourages his wife to be with other men, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't care for her anymore ... in fact, it could be for the exact opposite reason. He loves her enough to want to see her sexually fulfilled, and/or it helps charge his own sexual batteries to want his wife more once she's been with another man.
.....babygirlsub, welcome to this website; you seem original and real. In order to get good responses, however, it helps if the forum members get a better understanding as to the type of relationship you currently have with your husband, how long married, what arrangements and activities have you have had thus far, if you are still enjoying any intimacy with your spouse, and what is your opinion on the longevity of your marriage going forward.
......Married ladies usually get involved in cuckolding for one of two reasons, either out of necessity to fulfill an unsatisfying relationship, or out of request of their husbands ... sometimes both. Sometimes the husband knows, sometimes he doesn't, and sometimes he doesn't care to know. The longer married the easier it gets to allow the romance of a marriage to become stale on one or both sides of the marriage. But, voluntary cuckolding can have positive effects on the marriage as well, which is why I asked the earlier questions.
......So, I think, to answer your question regarding maintaining respect for your husband, it depends on the relationship you currently have with your husband and
why the 2 of you are involved in cuckolding in the first place. Is it out of necessity and loss of interest, or is it to enhance the marital relationship. How is it impacting your attitude towards your husband? How about your husbands attitude and interests in what you do?
Hope this will get a good discussion started for you. And, I hope your intent, here, is to improve your relationship with your husband, not replace him.
View attachment 716504 ........Hope this helps some, and Good Luck! Mac