Maybe some of the other ladies in here can help me..
I've only been in this fantastic site about 24 hours, but my whole perceptions have been changed massively
Here's how it is. Hubby just can't do it for me. He's been trying to compensate for that for a couple of years by getting me to play with myself with toys and stuff so he can watch, and sometimes take pics, and he likes that, but it doesn't get him hard. Nothing gets him hard. He thinks that me playing with myself while he watches is enough for me, the way it seems to be for him. It was for a while, but things have changed, specially since I came here.
I need more. I want more.
Should I?
Of course you should!
Further more, from the sounds of it, he may very well be voluntary cuckolding material. He is clearly a voyeur as he enjoys watching you masturbate and likes to take pictures, so he probably has fantasies about watching you have sex with other men, but may feel that you would freak out if he said so.
You might ask him to spice up your next "toy session" by getting some porn DVDs for you to watch while you play and see what kind of stuff he brings home. If he asks ahead of time what kind you would like, tell him to surprise you.
If one or more of the following show up, you will probably be on your way to a mutually happy and satisfying cuckolding sex life: black male on white female sex, cuckolding sex or female domination.
While you watch the sex videos make sure you make little comments about how hot some of the scenes look and how great it must feel to be fucked like that or even how you wish that you could be that girl, etc. If he reacts positively saying the he would like to see you getting fucked like that or even asks if you would like to fuck someone else, don't beat around the bush. Tell him you love him and would never want to hurt him, but that you would really love to be fucked like that instead of always having to use toys to masturbate with.
The female domination stuff is a little different, but don't be freaked about the BDSM parts, you don't need to go off the wall beating him or anything, although I'm sure that you could handle giving him a spanking with a hairbrush or wooden spoon. You might find you even enjoy it, especially if you think about all the times you had to go without a good fucking while letting him get his jollies watching you play with yourself.
However, the important thing you are interested in here is that he is telling you he has submissive desires and fantasizes about you being in control sexually. You
want to be in control. Your taking control will make it possible for you to enjoy sex with other men and have a nice obedient cuckold husband to enable you to do so.
So if he brings this home, while you watch it you might say something about how the wimp in the movie must really deserve the beating he is getting, how sometimes your husband makes you wish you could spank him like that or how lucky he is that you don't spank him like that. You might be happily surprised by him saying that he wishes you would.
You didn't say if he performs oral sex on you, only about how he likes to watch you play with your toys. If he doesn't eat your cunt, you should begin making him do so as soon as possible and don't be afraid to teach him how to please you the way you want it done. This will help put him in a more submissive state of mind whether he is into female domination, cuckolding or just black on white sex.
Whatever you decide to do, good luck and have fun!
will
...( as long as Anne doesn't mind)
