Real IR swinger party experiences?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by a716mwm4extra, Nov 13, 2013.

  1. a716mwm4extra

    a716mwm4extra New Member

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    I know there must be some people on this forum that have attended an IR swinger party. I am fascinated with this scene. Multiple hotwives in a hotel room surrounded many big cocks drives me crazy! I would love to hear some people share their real experiences here-
    How did the party get started; mingling or right to action?
    What rules were established or the accepted etiquette?
    How did people choose partners?
    What was the setting- hotel, home or large organized event?
    Did all the action occur in front of everyone or did most people retreat to private rooms?
    What was the BBC to wife ratio?
    How long did the party go?
    How many BBCs/hotwives were you with?

    I am a hung, fit white male with a fair amount of swinging experience but am dying to hear from real people about this hot scene. Would consider trading real/original amateur porn related to the IR parties from my collection- but not interested in any pro/fake/common Internet stuff.
    Same name on yahoo IM, would love to chat about your experiences!!
     
  2. Country couple

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    Great topic. I am wondering this very same thing. The clubs we attend only have a couple interracial couples. And the men seem afraid to talk to a white woman.
     
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  3. JenniferGA

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    Well the parties I've been to have been about the action, but many many people mingled there as well. The only rules there were that if there was any sex, it was to be black on white! People chose partners based on personality connections, and certain... aesthetic qualities! It happened at a good friend's home. There were private rooms, but also more public places to have sex. I'd say for every 1 wife there were 2 BBC's. The party was all night! ;) And I was with 5 men for a very satisfying evening!
     
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  4. GenS

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    Google BMFC Fan Club UK, I used to work on staff while living in the UK, there website will answer all these questions, if not attend a party and the rest is history....or you can email me. :)
     
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  5. GenS

    GenS Guest

    What part of GA you located?
     
  6. a716mwm4extra

    a716mwm4extra New Member

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    Yes, I have checked out that site and others in the states that specialize in IR swinger parties like nasty in the nati and interracial kink. Also follow a few yahoo groups on the topic. But it is not the same as hearing real people's real experiences (plus real pics/vids!). Still hoping to chat about this scene.
     
  7. BNJ4BBC

    BNJ4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Anyone know of regular IR swing partier in the NY/Long Island area?
     
  8. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Check out http://www.swinglifestyle.com/

    There is a groups section and it is broken down by interest, and I think by state. You may be able to find what you're looking for.
     
  9. King of the Swirl

    King of the Swirl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Well for me, as someone who has promoted and hosted IR swinger parties, how we did it (my female partner and I)
    They were held at upscale luxury double suites. We had rules that everyone must remove street clothes once they entered the party women in sexy lingerie or men in boxers or you could go totally nude. We had a living room sitting area
    and a kitchen area for talking , mingling , and just to break the ice, even though just mingling usually didn't last for long.
    We had rules established regarding no unwanted touching, no drugs, hygiene and general rules of conduct. Both of the bedrooms were open with one with lights on and one with lights dimmed or dark, but no private rooms. Interesting thing is most the action usually went on in the room with the lights on, where everyone could see the action.
    Our parties usually had about 10-15 couples, about 3-5 single females and about 20-30 BBC. We had very action oriented parties with lots and lots of action most times our parties would start around 9pm on would go on well into the morning 6-7am. There is nothing like a hot IR swinger party if done right,
     
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  10. Country couple

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    Thank you for your post King. You have cleared up many questions I have had. Plus your rules make me feel safer in the situation. That may sound funny but it's something that is honest and on my mind.
     
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  11. JenniferGA

    JenniferGA Member

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    I was, but thankfully I had been doing what I do for some time already!
     
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  12. taylorw

    taylorw Member

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    Definitely a good rule! I would love to take a girl to a party like that
     
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  13. King of the Swirl

    King of the Swirl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Well as a IR party host it is always important that all my guess feel safe and comfortable at my parties, especially the women guess first and foremost.
     
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