we've been off and on this site for a while with some close luck with one guy. Hoping it has grown and something can happen. We've had a 9 1/2 incher BBC and continue to have fun with him but want to try someone bigger or EXTREMELY THICK. We are not just a couple who set up a date and it happens in 1 sitting. We WILL ask for proof, you will meet husband first, and then if all that goes well game on. I know, it sounds like we are strict but you can never be too safe. Really like seeing this site grow and look forward to talking to some of you.