Sorry, but I disagree. I tend to be a little more "old-fashioned" and I have struggled with my wishes for years. My ideals are : 1) The marriage vows are sacred. If people can't deal with that, they need to remove themselves from the situation. 2) I tend to be lucky and find ladies with limited or zero experience. I want to make sure that in their lifetime, they experience the best in life, unless they don't want to. If I am all they want, then so be it. I will do my best to make sure they enjoy their life as much as they can. If they want to at least experiment, I am good with that. If they want to go into the lifestyle, . . ., well, you get my point. It is all about THEIR pleasure and enjoyment for me.
3) Everyone makes mistakes and is not perfect. I don't care if you are Joe Blow in the streets or Barack Obama (hope I spelled that right), you make mistakes. That is why a WIDE experience is important to me. I am a firm believer in the saying "If you love something/one, set it/them free. If it/they come(s) back to you, it/they were meant to be your(s) from the beginning. If not, it was never meant to be."
4) NO ONE will EVER get me to agree on the ******* addiction point, no matter where they are in the world!!!! NEVER!!!!!! I have seen too much and been through too much and lost too much to agree. In my opinion, legalisation of *******, no matter which recreationally used *******, is a fool's errand.