When I met my first wife, she had been with others. She was only eighteen when me we married, but she'd had experience. I was in the military and she lived with her brother and sister in-law who were swingers. We met on Guam. The ratio of men to women on the island was like four hundred to one. Before actually meeting my first wife, I had seen her in the barracks on many occasions. I met her a day after the eighth time I had seen her gang banged in the rec room of one of the barracks.
We met through a mutual friend. The fact that she was a slut is what attracted me to her. And finding out that for over a year she had gone to the barracks most every night made me want her even more. We met at the bowling alley on base, oddly enough just after I had sucked a guy in the bathroom that I later found out she'd fucked many times. We talked and got to know each other that night, and I spent the night with her at her house. I met her brother and sister in-law that night as well. They had two couples over to play. I didn't have sex with my first wife that night, but I got to watch her with others that night. And that made me fall for her.
The next day, after I had come off duty , I walked into my room and my room mate was fucking some girl. It turned out to be the woman I ended up marrying. I watched the two of them fuck for about ten minutes until my room mate pulled out of her and put his cock in her mouth and came. My room mate pulled his cock out of her mouth and told me, "she's all yours." I looked at her, cum still on her lips and asked if I could kiss her. She said yes. When we kissed, I knew I wanted her. It was right after we kissed that I asked her to marry me. To my surprise she said, "Yeah, what the hell. Why not?"
We met on a Monday night, where I watcher her with the couples. The following day we kissed. We got married that same Friday afternoon. She and I didn't have sex until after we got married. Yet, that day we kissed and I proposed and that Wednesday and Thursday and Friday morning before we got married, my wife-to-be got gang banged. When I picked up my wife-to-be on our wedding day, she had just had sex with two of the guys I worked with. We got married by the justice of the peace. The two guys who had just fucked her and her brother and sister in-law were witnesses at our wedding.
To me, it was very important that she had been with others. It was what attracted me to her. That is also the reason that I got my current wife gang banged shortly after we got together.