Question for other wives ...

Oh yea , im of the same opinion but my gf doesnt see it . She is from czech and very conservative . Any advice would be very welcome .
 
How do i find that fine line between being persistant but not pushy . I got her a large real feel brown dildo and a smaller blk cock . She prefers the smaller cock , she says the brown is too big for her . She knows i like if porn and doesnt have a prob with it . Sometimes wen i am watching it , she will be rubbing her clit and have a quick secret look . I dont mention it , is this a good sign ??
 
I would say it is, it means she is open to it. I mean while you are fucking her or watching ir porn throw out things like "Damn I think that big black cock would look so good fucking you baby" or something like that and dont look for a reply at first. Do it when she is very turned on only and after a few statements like that without any backlash, start making them questions like " dont you think that big black cock would look good sliding into you baby?" Or something like that. Keep going with it but only when she is very turned on and make sure you have sex without mentioning it as well though
 
I am in my early thirties and after having my last baby I got my tubes tied. It has been really liberating for me. I can fuck who ever I want and not have to worry about getting pregnant. My husband is supportive now but he was reluctant at first. Him and I don't have sex very often anymore. I see other guys a few times a week. I usually have them over at the house. Sometimes while the husband is at work and the ******* at school. Sometimes when they are home. My ******* are mostly teenagers and they caught me a few months ago so they are aware of our lifestyle. Overall I'd say this has made our marriage better. My husband gets off on watching me and I get all BBC I want.
my kind of white wife
 
Amen, pretty same experience with us. It helped our marriage and sex life 110 percent. It's not for everyone but works for us. Our only regret is that we didn't start years ago
Sounds great! Was this your husband's idea, yours or mutual? He always present?
 
We have been into having fun for a couple years now. We have only had two bbc but one was a bit thin and fit in her ass with no effort. The second guy is from her work and he does her very well. We have had two meeting with him. We are not cuckold couple. We enjoy the fun of a BBC. This guy is very nice and treat us well. I watch for a while then join in. He sends pics from time to time. I send her pic from on-line to mess with her. She has me set things up and when I tell her of a meeting she gets very excited. She obeys me on what I want her to do with him or me. We have been married 22 yrs now. We are really enjoying this time of life.
 
Well my experience so far has been a complete mix of emotions, both positive and negative. I'll admit, I got it off on the wrong foot by sleeping with a black friend of my hubby's. He found out about it through various texts and whatnot. I know my husband enjoys interracial porn and I have been trying to get him to be ok with me sleeping with other black men. Sometimes he seems interested and other times he gets outright mean about it. I have had a few crazy experiences (solo) since my first time and I do really enjoy the thrill. If I can get my husband to enjoy it, I'll be in heaven and love him even more, if not, I'm not sure how things will end up.

Would be ok with your husband watching?
 
Hi madmaddy , i think if you are positive about this lifestyle and asure him of your love for him then he may come around . Let him see how much you love him but you need bbc
Maybe try and meet other couples who enjoy black cock and let the guys hang out together while the women are being serviced in the bedroom .
I am still trying to convince my czech girlfriend to try black cock .
 
My husband is a strict once-a-monther. He reckoned that he had done his duty when he made me pregnant.
Luckily I get away almost every weekend taking ******* to pageants and modeling assingments so I can hook up quite regularly.
What he doesn't know won't hurt him.

Interesting. He set limits and you broke them without telling him. What consequences, if any, do you think can come of this if he finds out?
 
I have been watching this thread but mostly just reading and I have to admit to learning a great deal. I have been a bull off and on since my 20s, I am 49 now. I have seen the negative and the positive. I have seen relationships improve and I have seen them go completely south. I was always very concerned as a bull on how the husband and wife or husband and girlfriend felt, mostly because some people cannot separate sex from feelings. But, either way I have seen and noticed mix reactions, but most of them have been positive. I guess I was lucky because a lot of times I was a bull or a 3rd for 3some with friends. But, the experience can be positive or negative depending on the couple and how they approach it.
 
I am a 48 year old wife and mom who is approaching 2 years into being with black guys. This experience has been so liberating for me, and I'm grateful to have a hubby who supports and encourages me.

For wives like me who are doing this, what has been the effect on your marriage, both positive and negative?

For us, it has really improved our overall marriage. We communicate so much more, and our trust in each other has strengthened. And our sex life has really gotten hotter since I began playing. We can't keep our hands off each other!

The negatives are small. I am no longer sexually exclusive with my hubby. And he has watched me pleasured in a way he has never been able to. But we talked through it all, and are in a great place.

Looking forward to hearing from other wives.
It's nice to see couples that have such a good level of communication
 
I have to say as a husband of 20+ years & after spendting most of those years as a ******* along with being a role model in my community,entering the age that the ******* are allowing @marriedslut4blax & I to spend more time enjoying each other. We have played with this fantasy for many years..researched,role played,practiced & not to long ago participated in what we desired. Myself....I havent had any negative emotions due to my allowing my wife to enjoy a cock of a different color & a much much larger size.
Ive felt no jealousy towards what Ive encouraged her to do...Basically the way I see it is simple.
I met my wife & enjoy making her happy. We have introduced each other to everything that brings each other joy...all stuff that was not known of by the other... everything from foods,places on the map,preference of vehiclesall the way to this. If I know of something that my wife would enjoy...I would be greedy to keep it a secret from her or denying her that enjoyment if she were to ask...We are here for a good time...not a ling time. Imma let ya smile instead of making ya mad.
 
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