Question for other couples or bulls

#1
We are a very real couple that has met a great guy on the site and are meeting him for the first time this Wednesday night. We are not doing this because he is inadequate. He is well built , very well hung, handsome and successful. We are looking to broaden our sexual horizons and have determined that finding a handsome, smart BBC is how we are going to do so.

We have spoken to BigBlackBull76 on the phone and exchanged many pics and emails about the scenario we have in mind. We are very excited about Wednesday and what will unfold.

We were wondering if anybody could give us some insight as to what to expect from our first experience. Please don't reply with, " she will never want to fuck you again" or "she will be ruined forever" or "she will realize that you are a lesser man" crap....we are looking for thoughtful, honest insight...

Thanks in advance,
 
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MacNfries

Male
Sweet & Cordial
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From
NC, US
#2
We were wondering if anybody could give us some insight as to what to expect from our first experience. Please don't reply with, " she will never want to fuck you again" or "she will be ruined forever" or "she will realize that you are a lesser man" crap....we are looking for thoughtful, honest insight...

Thanks in advance,

Maggie and Jason
wow, putting those kinds of restrictions on responders is really going to challenge some of 'em, BlissCouple ... :p

Personally, I believe it relaxes everyone if they realize that the 'first meeting' is not going to result in sex. That takes the pressure of sex off the table and gives everyone a chance to actually have real conversation to get to know each other better. I can only remember a couple times in which my wife and I actually had sex with a new partner (M or F) on the first meeting. It really is important to know that the 3 of you have something in common other than focusing on the other person's anatomy ... we should all be much broader than all that.
We'll all look forward to your feedback later ... hope it works out to your expectations.
sm-4-leaf-clover.png ......Mac
 
#4
Thanks guys...we have spoken on the phone with him several times and are looking forward to seeing if the chemistry is right... We really appreciate your insight and will let you know how it goes...
 

CuckCpl4BBC

Couple
Gold Member
From
IL, US
#6
Breathe....relax....no expectations....trust each other. It's just sex. I would always get so worked up at first...worrying...wondering what my husband would think...what anyone would think. It was all wasted energy. You have talked about this, you have done your homework on the guy, it's gonna be more than alright...it's gonna be great. Let yourself enjoy it.
 
#8
Hey guys, congrats on deciding to go and enjoying yours sexual life ! As long you guys trust each other then everything will be just fine ! Communicate with each other and enjoy the fantastic times !!
 
#11
We found our first experience was not unlike having that first ever teenage date!
Excited, anxious, nervous, what's the next step, should we, should we not, will I, won't I, will he, won't he, will my wife go all the way, can I let her go all the way, what "if" she goes all the way, will she enjoy it, what if she doesn't enjoy it, what if she enjoys it too much, will he ruin her poor pussy and stretch it too much for me to enjoy later!

All these things went trough my mind at one time or another the night Edwin, my old university friend & roomate, Pam & I spent out on the town club hopping. It wasn't planned that Edwin would get into Pam's panties that night, but he did! And, I must add, a great time was had by all ... proof is that we've had several replays since then.

My advice, relax, let nature take its course and all will be well! Good luck! If your experience is only as 10% as good as the experience we've had you're in for one hell of a ride!
 
#13
First meet for drinks or somewhere social to get the awkwardness out of the way. Don't rush it, once everyone feels comfortable take it to a hotel room and just let it run it's natural course.
 
#15
We are a very real couple that has met a great guy on the site and are meeting him for the first time this Wednesday night. We are not doing this because he is inadequate. He is well built , very well hung, handsome and successful. We are looking to broaden our sexual horizons and have determined that finding a handsome, smart BBC is how we are going to do so.

We have spoken to BigBlackBull76 on the phone and exchanged many pics and emails about the scenario we have in mind. We are very excited about Wednesday and what will unfold.

We were wondering if anybody could give us some insight as to what to expect from our first experience. Please don't reply with, " she will never want to fuck you again" or "she will be ruined forever" or "she will realize that you are a lesser man" crap....we are looking for thoughtful, honest insight...

Thanks in advance,
She will be fucked so hard in every hole that you will never be allowed to fuck her again. You will be forced to go down on her often and your sex life will be changed forever.
 
#16
We are a very real couple that has met a great guy on the site and are meeting him for the first time this Wednesday night. We are not doing this because he is inadequate. He is well built , very well hung, handsome and successful. We are looking to broaden our sexual horizons and have determined that finding a handsome, smart BBC is how we are going to do so.

We have spoken to BigBlackBull76 on the phone and exchanged many pics and emails about the scenario we have in mind. We are very excited about Wednesday and what will unfold.

We were wondering if anybody could give us some insight as to what to expect from our first experience. Please don't reply with, " she will never want to fuck you again" or "she will be ruined forever" or "she will realize that you are a lesser man" crap....we are looking for thoughtful, honest insight...

Thanks in advance,
There is no vanilla answer for your question. Every person is different so no one can tell you 100% as to what to expect. It appears that you have done some reasonable home work before jumping in to it. The actual dynamic depends on how you or your hubby is nervous if at all or bull is nervous about encounters as it may be bulls first encounter with a couple. Secondly, it depends on your own comfort zones in terms of your expectations? Are you looking some one only for sex to spice up your married life or are you looking some one who has the ability to have interesting conversation on varied topic, is the guy extrovert or introvert? All these factors will shape your overall experience, however from my personal experience I feel like you will enjoy it unless bull does something stupid.
 

TwoLoversInWNY

Couple
Real Person
From
NY, US
#17
There is no vanilla answer for your question. Every person is different so no one can tell you 100% as to what to expect. It appears that you have done some reasonable home work before jumping in to it. The actual dynamic depends on how you or your hubby is nervous if at all or bull is nervous about encounters as it may be bulls first encounter with a couple. Secondly, it depends on your own comfort zones in terms of your expectations? Are you looking some one only for sex to spice up your married life or are you looking some one who has the ability to have interesting conversation on varied topic, is the guy extrovert or introvert? All these factors will shape your overall experience, however from my personal experience I feel like you will enjoy it unless bull does something stupid.
This Happened 2.5 years ago, man...