So I have a lifestyle friend who regularly sees black male escorts. She says that she likes it because they are in good shape, well hung, and they are more comfortable with her being married, being discreet, meeting on short notice, etc. I am concerned about hygine, stds, and my overall safety. Some of her bulls cater to men also which increases my concern for STDs. Still, is the risk bigger than when I go to a swinger club? Neither of us have a problem finding men to party with, but we have both had situations where we have been disappointed in the bedroom, and had awkward situations afterward. What is your opinion on escorts? Have you ever been with one?